Bisexual women, do you think it’s harder to approach men or women?

[JustinTheGreat]

Just curious.

i have a friend who is bisexual however ever since i known her, she’s always perused men only.

She would complain about men being…men lol. As she should.

so I asked her why she doesn’t try to talk to more women. She said that women are more intimidating to her and men are easy.

She said it’s also harder to gauge whether a woman is actually flirting or if they’re just being friendly.

I feel like women are very…gay with each other lmao. Even the straight women.

You go on a woman’s Instagram and her straight friends are in the comments saying “omg you’re sooooo hot and sexy 😍😍” and it literally doesn’t mean anything. That’s just how women compliment and talk to each other.

so I 100% get in the lesbian world why it would confusing as to whether another woman is actually into you or she’s just doing typical female banter lol.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"in the lesbian world why it would confusing as to whether another woman is actually into you"

From a lesbian buddy I knew, lesbian detection was as is:

• Look for a thumb ring
• Look for trimmed nails
• Most of all, use your radar, it's working, overall

[fonduegirl]

Imma try that

[fonduegirl]

Thank her for me!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I would if I could and she'd laugh at me remembering and spreading that information lol

[fonduegirl]

I wanna go to a lesbian bar. There's none here

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Then you can still wander around online, I'm sure there's gazillion of places to discover, and people :)

[fonduegirl]

I'd have to move to another state. Even there, lesbian bars are pretty much non-existent

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I personally don't know of any lesbian bars per se, in my location, but Lesbian & Gay bars yes

[fonduegirl]

LGBT is restricted in india

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Which makes sense, anything LGBT is at least restricted, or at worst punishable by death, in all countries leaning towards conservatism

[DCVsMarvel2]

@anon1903 They're restricting it everywhere these days. Countries are saying it's "immoral to be gay". I weep for humanity

[fonduegirl]

@DCVsMarvel2 me too

[JustinTheGreat]

Old comment but another sign a woman is gay is when she has long acrylic nails but keeps the index and middle finger short 😅😅

[Cherryblossomfairy]

It’s much harder to approach women. U don’t have to do much for men they will just come onto u. With girls u have to make sure they’re even into girls then u have to make sure ur even their type then u have to let them know ur into girls and they still might reject u

[Cherryblossomfairy]

thanks for mho

[fonduegirl]

I could literally let a woman play with my tits and it would still be platonic as hell. For guys on the other hand, people are going to ship you even if that male and I have only spoken once.

So definitely women

[DCVsMarvel2]

How is that not sexual harassment

[fonduegirl]

@DCVsMarvel2 heteronormativity

[DCVsMarvel2]

What

[Summeroflove]

That’s the issue approaching the same sex can be incredibly difficult especially when some people are straight as a arrow and will get extremely angry

[Joshydavid25]

Women hardly approach men, so it's probably about equal.. It's not really that hard to to tell whether a woman is being friendly or flirting.. They drop little noticeable hints.. But it is telling of how women lecture men on how to noticeable their hints, but they have a hard time themselves..

[Finchie40]

She probably has a harder time approaching females’ over males , mainly because the chances of that girl being into girls’ is a slim chance compared to males’ that more than likely like females’

[DCVsMarvel2]

I think it's harder for them to approach men, because they often already know what women are thinking

[79CupOCoffee]

I’m gay I find hard cause sometimes it’s hard to to tell.

[fonduegirl]

"Are you LGBT?" Is offensive in India, where I live

[blackeagle007]

Welcome to our world!!

[petitedollbabee]

Significantly harder to approach women.

[juleyboo74]

Women - EASY to approach men.

[leahzrc]

hard to approach women

[TheKillerJason]

Women aren’t bisexual they’re traumatized