11 moNot for me. I don't mind recreational use of drugs as long as they're natural. Everyone has their specific likes and dislikes when it comes to that kind of stuff.
For me, I hate the idea of smoking. Humans are only meant to inhale oxygen. Smoking weed is more of a turn off for me than doing edibles for that reason. I just think smoking in general is bad. And I don't believe in having artificial stuff either. I also don't like associating with people that do it 24/7. But I'm okay with drinking socially, and very occasional use of edible weed and shrooms (like maybe a few times a year at most).10 Reply
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11 moI’d be so fine with it
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why did this get MHO
sounds like confirmation bias to me
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11 moYes...
One time I was using Ok Cupid to try and meet girls. One woman contacted me, and wanted me to call her. I did so, and right away she asked me if I would pray for her. I guess she was testing to see if I really was a Christian, as my profile said. Well, I did what she asked. After that I tried to stay in contact with her. The next couple times I tried calling her. When she answered the phone she was often emotional, used some cuss words, and talked about how she was high on weed. Anyways your question reminded me of this experience.
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Woah. Sorry.
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She was the 2nd to the last woman on a dating site I met, when I decided to pull the plug on online dating. To make this story even more sad, she was actually local enough I could of met her in real life! That only happened to me 2 times in 13 years! All 2 times, the women wasn't good enough to take the risk on. All 2 times it was ladies who did drugs.
I still remember the night I decided to quit. Like I said, I had been trying for 13 years and wasn't getting anywhere. The last woman emailed me and wanted me to call her. Sadly I came down with a cold, and wasn't sounding good. I waited a few days, and thing got a moment to call her. When I called, she picked up and said "Oh I should of told, I met someone, God Bless". After that short conversation was over, set and cried a bit, and said to myself, "why do I keep putting myself through this?" As soon as I got home, I turned on my computer and deleted all my dating profiles, and haven't created another one since. - 11 mo
I'm so sorry about your experiences. That really sucks.
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It gets worse, cause when I talk about this stuff in forums, people like to blame me for my misfortune. Oh if you just write them a paragraph, then you will be successful. Maybe if they actually lived close enough to date! But it always sucked, when you spend all kinds of time, trying to write someone you don't even know, a paragraph of some sort, only to get back a word or two. Or less! Then I had people telling me, "for men it's a numbers game." I even found a woman dating coach on youtube that said, if your a guy that doesn't look above average... Then she added, I don't want to tell anyone to give up... But...
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Wow I'm sorry that people blame you for your misfortune. Dating is hard. It's really hard for guys I won't deny that. It really sucks and I wish things were easier for you and guys like you.
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When I think about dating, and realize that my experience tells me that I have no hope. I love slamming dating sites. I don't think they exist for our benefit. They exist for our paycheck.
That dating coach woman said she tested dating apps. She said, she created a male profile just to see what would happen. She reported that things really are stacked in the woman's favor.
Nah I smoke weed too and its one of those things where it's ok depending on the person. Some people get addicted, but some people just use it casually too it's very similar to drinking alcohol. Some people drink 2 beers not a red flag. Some people drink 6 beers THATS a red flag. The amount matters most even daily use is fine as long as it's not all day every day. one or two joints over the course of the day is perfectly fine for stress relief.
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11 moNo not a turnoff at all. I'd get really excited. It would be fun to mess with her mind while she was cognitively impaired and I was sober. Nothing harmful. Just seeing if she could follow a train of thought or if she gets lost easily. How she recovers from confusion. Whether her awareness of sarcasm evaporates.
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11 moDepends how she says it. If she's just being honest about her feelings, that's actually refreshing. But if it comes off like she's already planning the wedding after two texts, that might feel like too much too soon. A little mystery never hurts in the early stages.
10 ReplyWell depends.
Honestly it'd be turned-on by the mere idea.
But I'd prefer to just keep contact with her for a while and learn to know her when she's fully conscious and not high. After I'm sure that she is doing the choices consciously, well then I'm up for the fun.
10 ReplyNo because it affects people different some people become very smart and in to the conversation. So people just chill and get in to the high
Some people pass out lmao. But no matter what its sill a good conversation im sure20 Reply- 400 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
11 moIf it was a guy, yes. I'm game for pain relief or what not but using drugs to get high was never my thing.
Has a couple serious and high fevers as a small child that killed any fun in the idea. Similar feeling I assume.10 Reply It's a turn on for some, like me. I wish my girl does edibles. She drinks but does not do edibles. And I stopped drinking. So, it's getting harder to get into matching vibes
10 ReplyProbably not.
I live a clean lifestyle but in the past I did my fair share of experimenting.
However, addiction is a hard turnoff.
10 Reply593 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. No? Sounds like we're going to be great friends
20 Reply333 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. If I find out that she ever was into drugs, I'd end things with her.
20 ReplyIf it was all the time like a habit then she's probably got psychological issues so perhaps unavailable for a relationship.
10 ReplyNo it wouldn't be. I would probably join them on the edibles.
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11 moProbably. Not because she does edibles, but because I would think she's only talking to me because she's high.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)11 moYes. I don't do any drugs, I don't smoke, and I drink alcohol infrequently and usually just one drink.
10 Reply6.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. It’s a turn off to bring up things like that when you don’t know somebody I wouldn’t trust her and think she’s Loose Lucy
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11 moIt wouldn’t be the first time I was told this. It hasn’t bothered me yet.
10 Reply 335 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Double caution.
10 ReplyNot a turnoff, but I wouldn't take it seriously either.
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11 moIt would be, yes. Time would tell if it would be a deal-breaker though.
10 Reply Not at all, in fact I would have her taste my homemade gummies or cookies heh heh
10 ReplyNo if it's only few times then no as long as she doesn't constantly depend on it
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11 moNot at all. But I wouldn’t take advantage of her either
10 Reply311 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Not at all and might would join her if I were retired….. (Give me twelve months)
10 ReplyMore than likely, yes. I do not want whoever I am with to be crap-faced all the time. It would not sit right with me.
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11 moI’d be too excited for a first date to be chewing those things!! 😭
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11 moWhat's that, some kind of drug? Drug users are degenerates.
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u 11 moNo, unless this happens every other day! 🤔
10 Reply 9.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Nope.
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11 moDepends how she was acting
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11 moWhat girl? You mean that one I just left?
10 Reply 1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Yes, a big turnoff
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11 moNo. Not at all.
10 Reply 517 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Not really, I used to make them
10 ReplyNo, I'd tell her to join me
10 Replyyes it is for me
10 ReplyNot at all
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Anonymous(36-45)11 moI think I can tolerate that.
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11 moNot at all
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11 moProbably
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11 moNope okay with me
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11 moyeah i'm not into dating drug addicts.
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10 ReplyNo not at all
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11 moNot right away!
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11 moyeah
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11 moNot at all
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10 Reply605 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. probably
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