Women with bigger breasts, what are the disadvantages?

[Anonymous]

I’m considering getting breast implants because I feel really insecure about having a smaller chest. However, I’d like to hear about some experiences to make sure that it’s a good decision. I’m interested in going from a B-Cup to a D-Cup, if that matters :)

[CindyRuns]

I've experienced both ends

I was a 34B, pre-kids, a 36DD while breastfeeding and back to a 36C.

Put simply, big breasts get in the way and are not terribly comfortable.

I was so glad that things shrunk back after I weaned my daughters !!!

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Anonymous]

Clothes don’t fit right, difficult to find bras and swimwear that fit well, unable/uncomfortable to sleep on stomach (if you’re a stomach sleeper), they more easily become saggy (maybe not if they’re fake I don’t know), have to wear bras so no cute tops without bra and no shoulderless stuff (strapless bras don’t work), can cause back pain.

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Amur8711]

Don't, the scars are a turn off, they don't look as good when naked.

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Amur8711]

Nice! 🔥

[KateCrombie]

Firstly the stares… sometimes feels heavy.. especially while running or doing other exercises… uncomfortable while sleeping…. Clothes don’t fit easily

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Anonymous]

Heavy, depending on size shirts have to be larger I fit a medium to large generally have to wear an XL to accommodate the ladies. Back pain, hard to find cute bras. I’d personally get a reduction if I could.

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah now, but if you were to have a surgery and go from B to D there’s going to be a lot of changes in weight. You’ll probably have back pain to compensate that may or may not be permanent. And I mean if you like cute bras you likely won’t be able to find them anymore in the correct size. Bra prices also go up based on size my friend is a F cup I think and one bra was like $52 a friend is a B and 3 bras were $60 for her.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Good lord. How big are they if they make you have to go up two shirt sizes?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s more so for comfort. If I’m wearing a band tee large is fine XL if I want a sleep shirt, but I work in health care, scrubs are already tight so I have to go up two sizes for that to comfortably wear them.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

You must be very popular with your male patients, no offense.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Is there anything good about so being big up top? Or is it just bad, bad, and more bad?

[Opinion Owner]

All my male patients are geriatrics and not there so no not popular lol. And for me no it’s all bad.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

What about when you actually want a guy's attention? Isn't it nice to have a little extra va-va-voom then?

[Opinion Owner]

No, the vast majority of the dudes I’ve dated don’t care about that. The guy I’m seeing now wants me to do what’s best and most comfortable for me

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

But it's gotta be fun for him, right? Like all that abundance?

He's dating "the hot girl with big boobs." He must enjoy that.

[Opinion Owner]

Considering he sees me live in constant pain he wants me to do what’s best for me. But he says he’s never cared for boobs his ex was apparently excessively large

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Are they THAT large? Like so large that they're like a literal burden to you, and like causing health problems?

Was it fun having big boobs when they were just kinda big, and not huge like they are now?

You can chat me if you feel like talking on there. This thread is getting kinda long. Just a thought.

[Opinion Owner]

Coupled with other chronic issues yes. It’s like unnecessary extra weight that causes back pain and problems

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Sounds like a curse.

Am I allowed to ask what size bra you wear?

If it makes you feel better, lots of women get expensive painful surgery so they can have what you have.

Would you rather be flat-chested?

[Opinion Owner]

You can ask but I won’t answer lol. And yes if I had an option to either be flat chested or tiny I would do that in a heartbeat.

I’m aware people endure pain and surgeries for larger breasts, and to them it may be worth it. Just not worth it for me.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Have you ever thought about using them to make money? Like modeling or whatever? Or have you ever tried anything like that?

It sounds like for you there is absolutely nothing good at all about having a big chest.

Well... if you were wearing a 34dd bra, would it be too loose, too tight, or what?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope I’m comfortable financial wise. Probably tight

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

So... you're like a 34ddd? Somewhere around there?

Did you get teased about them when you were younger?

[Opinion Owner]

Not quite that big but some larger bras are too big. And no

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Well, if you didn't get teased about them, I'm sure the guys who knew you were all attracted to you. Or parts of you.

Do you have to get your bras custom made? I honestly have no idea how bra sizes work.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn’t care about people’s opinions in school they could’ve teased but I didn’t care.

And no that’s a waste of money lol

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

I'm sure you had a succession of very happy boyfriends when you were in school, who made sure the teasing didn't get too bad.

I just thought you might NEED to get your bras custom made, since you have such a large chest on sych a small body.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah no it’s a waste of money and I didn’t date much in school. Even in adult life I barely dated

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Why did you date so seldom? A lot of guys probably found you attractive. Or at the very least they found your boobs attractive.

Were you afraid of guys because they were always staring at you with lust in their faces?

[Opinion Owner]

I had more important things to worry about than dudes. Though from what I do remember most of them were decently respectful

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

And now you're in a stable relationship, so you STILL don't worry about dudes?

Can I ask how old you are? Just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

32 lol get old enough and you stop caring about other people. I just reached that point at 13 not older

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

32's not old.

You still have life in you.

You talk like you're in your eighties though.

What do you do for a living? I guess it has nothing to do with your boobs.

[Opinion Owner]

Work in health care. And it’s not old but when you have chronic illnesses it feels old

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

That's right, you mentioned you work in healthcare, sorry.

What chronic illnesses do you have?

[Opinion Owner]

POTS and EDS

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

I don't know what those are.

Are they physical or mental?

[Opinion Owner]

Both are physical. POTs is a disorder where the heart rate increases rapidly. Can result in rapid blood pressure drops, dizziness and fainting or near fainting.

EDS is a type of connective tissue disorder. I have hEDS so I’m hyper mobile my joints slip and bones twist out of joint. It’s possible I have more than one form of EDS but hEDS is the only diagnosed one.

I also have ADHD, but that’s the least of my issues

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Well that sucks.

But you have a job, so you're able to function in the world, right? Even if it's not always easy?

Are they curable? Will you get better in time/

I'm gonna suggest (again) that you could chat me, if you feel like it. This thread is getting really long. We;re probably annoying the guy who asked this question.

[Anonymous]

The weight will cause spine injuries. My friend had to have a massive reduction and will still always have reoccurring beck and back issues now. Find a man who values you for you not a superficial you.

[Asker]

I'm a 34B

[Asker]

And I like women

[MemeSupreme]

i dont believe you lol

[Kelly6]

@neonstar2345 Heavy and full of back pain

[LiamS95]

I prefer women with "B" cups.

[dean55au]

I really love the size of your breasts

[Meatballs]

Too much is a waste