Girls, what makes you proud of your man?

[Light_beam]

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Being proud of a man usually comes from the way he shows up not just for you, but for himself.

For me, it’s things like

* When he handles life with responsibility and calm instead of excuses.

* When he protects the relationship, not just enjoys it.

* When he’s consistent, his words and actions match.

* When he treats people with respect, even when nobody’s watching.

* When he tries, even on the days he’s tired or stressed.

* When he grows instead of getting defensive.


A man doesn’t need to be perfect.

But when his character, loyalty, and effort make you feel safe and valued, that’s the kind of man you talk about with pride.

[Nikki1989]

His kindness, charisma, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, musical skills, and knowledge, to name just a few.

[Light_beam]

wow! that is a lot

[Nikki1989]

There is more.

[Light_beam]

he doesn't mind your sexual past?

[Nikki1989]

Nope. It has never come up in discussion in our almost 17 years of being together, but we are not insecure either.

[Light_beam]

good..

[beenherebefore]

I’m proud of how smart and down to earth he is.

[Light_beam]

married?

[beenherebefore]

Happily married.

[Light_beam]

huh.. nice.. really, what an achievment for a man to make his woman that happy !!