I think I made a mistake?

[Mboroyangu]

I met this girl from ukrajin, we live in the same hotel. Two weeks have passed getting to know each other. She was in very abusive relationship for 8 years and is still bitter about it.

We met for some drinks in the hotel bar and ended up going to my room and we have since hooked up a couple of times.

Today she told me she has a night shift but will see me once she is done. She gave a teddy bear today so that I can always be with her so i accepted.

fast forward an hour i saw her with another guy going out of the same hotel we live in and 30 mins later she they came back together.

at this moment i was shocked that she told me she was going to work. Seems it was planned so i will not go to her room.

my emotions took the better of me, i went to her hotel room and it was locked so i called and my calls were ignored.

my guess she went to the room of the other guy and they are doing for only god knows.

She once told me that she can only sleep with one person at a time and was telling me that she is only seeing me which was a lie.

i have just decided no never contact her or is it ok for me to talk to her about it the next time i see her but my guess she is cheating?

i was really developing feeling for this girl but i guess it was a mistake and now i must just assume nothing ever happened between us.

do you guys have and sound advice?

[Genie23]

You should move on. You're more invested in her than she is invested in you. You didn't sleep with anyone else since you met her, so you expected her to not sleep with anyone else and you were starting to develop feelings. So, I can understand why you felt upset/hurt and reacted the way you did.

I don't know what she was doing, but even if she slept with him... it's not exactly cheating because you weren't dating her. But was it wrong in case she slept with him? Yes, if she told you she doesn't date multiple people at once or choose to only sleep with one person at a time... yet she did that. That's a lie. Giving a false hope/assurity wrong.

You shouldn't have gone to her room and shouldn't called her multiple times. But what happened has happened. I don't think she's ready to be with you exclusively. So, it's time to forget about her.

[Nikki1989]

Your priority must now be to protect your feelings and recognize that her actions, while driven by her pain, are incompatible with a healthy relationship.

[Lliam]

Did you leave her a message? See if she contacts you. If she does, play it cool and simply tell her what you saw. Don't get angry, emotional, or make any accusations. See what she has to say.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is traumatized by the war. But if you can't take it anymore, you should move on.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[Selene1600000]

You barely know this girl, so while it is understandable that you feel hurt and confused, your emotions may have moved much faster than the actual relationship. The bigger issue is not whether she slept with someone else, but that she seems to have lied to you and avoided communication, which damages trust very early on. I would not chase her or confront her emotionally in the hotel hallway, but if she reaches out again you can calmly say that the mixed signals and dishonesty are not something you want to continue with.

[gottogames313gotag]

please treat her nicely she has been traumatized maybe