If you said you wouldn't text anybody first anymore and a girl challenged that and said so you're not gonna text me first what is she really saying?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I think she knows you like her or she thinks you guys are besties

[Asker]

She definitely knows I like her because I said it. I just haven't made a move to ask her to hang out

[Opinion Owner]

I can't really say if this girl likes you or not... I dont have much to go on... BUT if you do ask her to hang out and she says yes thats an okay sign... maybe try getting close or making a move when you guys hang out

[Asker]

I don't know if it is okay to ask her to hang out

[Opinion Owner]

Why wouldn't it be okay?

[Asker]

I put myself in a friend role so if I ask her to hang out she will think no guy could ever just be friends

[Opinion Owner]

What is it that you want? Just be honest...

[Asker]

Does it matter what I want?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course it matters

[Asker]

I stopped myself from making moves and I wonder if she notices

[Opinion Owner]

Like why put yourself in the friend zone when you want more. Personally if you're going to keep having self esteem issues you shouldn't date. It'll only cause more problems in the future

[Opinion Owner]

I think she notices

[Asker]

You're right I'm doing this to myself but this is my first navigating this kind of situation and im learning

[Opinion Owner]

You learn better by making mistakes... you learn from them. Just have a little bit of confidence and have fun.💜

[ABC1x1x]

Whoncares what she is saying.