6 moYes, envy or dissatisfaction with breast size is common, with many women wanting what they don't have (larger or smaller breasts), driven by societal ideals, media, and personal perceptions, though studies show preferences vary and no single size is universally "ideal," with many women finding confidence in embracing their natural size.
Why Women Might Envy Larger Breasts:
Cultural Ideals: Media often promotes larger breasts as a sign of femininity and attractiveness, leading some women to feel inadequate.
Perceived Attention: Some women believe larger breasts attract more male attention or sexual appeal.
Clothing Options: A desire for certain clothing styles or cleavage can drive envy.
Why Women Might Want Smaller Breasts (or Not Want Larger):
Physical Discomfort: Larger breasts can cause back pain, difficulty finding proper bras, and challenges with physical activities.
"Less is More": Some women prefer smaller breasts for comfort, practicality, or a different aesthetic.
The Reality of Breast Size & Satisfaction:
No "Ideal" Size: Research and common sense suggest beauty comes in all sizes, and many women find confidence and attractiveness in their natural proportions.
Self-Acceptance is Key: Focusing on proper fit, support (with the right bra), and self-love can combat dissatisfaction, regardless of size.
Body Image Issues: Body dissatisfaction, including breast size, can affect self-esteem and even lead to avoiding important health checks, highlighting the emotional impact of these feelings.Envy regarding breast size is a documented phenomenon, often characterized as "breast envy," where women may desire physical traits they do not possess. While dissatisfaction is widespread across all sizes, research shows distinct trends among women with smaller breasts.
Prevalence of Dissatisfaction
Desire for Larger Size: Global studies indicate that approximately 47.5% to 48% of women desire larger breasts. In a large survey of 40 nations, only about 29% of women reported being satisfied with their current breast size.
Global Idealization: Research suggests a global trend toward the idealization of medium-to-large breasts, which can lead to increased dissatisfaction among those with smaller sizes.
Drivers of Envy
Perceived Femininity and Sexiness: Women with smaller breasts may feel "less feminine" or "less sexy" because they do not fill out certain clothing styles or match societal beauty standards.
Societal Standards: Media portrayals often depict a "normal" size as being larger than the actual average, fostering insecurities and a skewed self-image.
Social Comparison: Exposure to idealized bodies on social media can increase body-related envy through "upward comparison," sometimes motivating women to pursue cosmetic surgery.
The "Grass is Greener" Effect
Envy is not one-sided; it frequently exists in both directions:
Small-Breasted Envy: Focused on aesthetics, clothing fit, and feeling sexually attractive.
Large-Breasted Envy: Women with large breasts often envy those with smaller breasts due to physical discomfort (e. g., back and shoulder pain), difficulty finding affordable bras, and unwanted sexual objectification.
Psychological and Health Impacts
Mental Well-being: Dissatisfaction with breast size is linked to lower self-esteem and happiness.
Health Avoidance: Women unhappy with their size are statistically less likely to perform regular breast self-examinations, often due to feelings of shame or embarrassment.10 Reply
Most Helpful Opinions
Those of them who have A-Cup Angst yea, those of them who have Petite Pride no.
20 Reply
Just like how women with big breasts (who want small breasts) envy women who have had a breast reduction. Believe it or not gender expression differs individually and we envy what we want but dont have
30 Reply
416 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. No, I don't think so. There are many drawbacks too
33 Reply
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
12Opinion
As a big breast girl, personal experience and what I’ve seen on/offline here, yes plenty. Not to say to bring shame or upset people esp with some of the comments here, but I’m just being honest it is very common. I also don’t appreciate the passive aggressive comments here with women making other women feel bad for what they don’t have or our sizes. If anything, we should just accept/be happy what we have and hype each other up. I feel like society already makes enough judgement on our body. I wish more women will just support women instead.
03 Reply- 5 mo
That is one of the most accurate call outs I have seen. So many times I've heard women complaining that they can't wear the same dress to multiple events or they have to look a particular way and then are shocked when the men tell them that was never what they wanted or asked for. It's the jealousy of other women "speaking for men" in order to bring them down.
I'm sorry you have experienced it, but I am not surprised - 5 mo
@Grond21 I really appreciate you for taking the time to understand my stance and acknowledge the other side to this question. You're absoluetly right, I feel like we as women get so much pressure with how we carry ourselves and how we look. I think it is quite tiring. I am just gonna be me and that's all it matters to me. If you watched the movie "Barbie" you might get more perspective about it. And you're right, a lot of women do get jealous and compete with other women. But there are still good women who support other women. I'm with the second group who rather uplift and align with one another. Unfortunately, when I look back, I have been judged and went through jealously/envious from other women rather it may be friends or families multiple times. It would always have a freeze response to it because I wouldn't understand it at the time, but it just happens so many times that I get put down for something they envy of rather it's my big breasts, looking sexy, or getting more attention from men etc. It's a little upsetting and sad looking back it now, but it is what it is.
- 5 mo
You are more than welcome @bobalife. It is not fair or kind how you get treated. I recently read a study where they tracked female hairdressers and a small but significant portion of them would recommend bad haircuts to women they perceived as more beautiful than they were. Simply to reduce the "competition". It must make it incredibly challenging to know who is trustworthy and who is not, especially if you are perceived as beautiful with desirable traits.
But I'm so glad that you have decided to be with the second group who uplifts and supports other women!! That is a wonderful gift you are giving, and it makes you a better person. Ironically, it also makes you more attractive to men while the jealous backbiting makes a woman less attractive to men.
- 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
u 6 moboth have their pros and cons...
one thing is true... people can only envy the things they do not have, lol12 Reply- 6 mo
jealousy is different... lol
481 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Just like guys think bigger=better for penises, girls think the same for breasts. They're wrong, personally I prefer small breasts. There was also a study, although it's over 20 years old at this point, where it was determined that breast size preferences depend on wealth. While 50% preferred average sized breast, the poorer ones preferred larger while the richer preferred smaller.
20 Reply
6 moWhen I was in my teen years I did envy it, but now that I’m older I realized there's a guy out there who will like each of us in our own way. 😂
11 Reply664 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Female intra sex competition is brutal and several women here have complained of the put downs they get from their bigger breasted sisters. "you are lucky you can wear anything".
Undoubtedly some are envious but they shouldn't be since surveys here have shown men like small to medium best and huge honkers are not as popular as might be thought.00 Reply
6 moNo. I'm very proud of my perky little tits and wouldn't want to change them.
12 Reply- 6 mo
Small-breasted women will be jealous of you.
- 6 mo
Why would they? There's no reason for that.
Anonymous(45 Plus)6 moMost do. Of course they'll never admit to it and a lot will say the opposite.😆
What is really funny is how few women realize just how little men care about about the size of her breasts. Most women. Don't get that a woman's boobs are just a fantasy for guys. This is why you see men making dollars rain on strippers with big ta-ta's, but almost no guy would date a stripper.
10 Reply- 751 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
6 mowhen i was a teenager sometimes but not anymore
like my mind has moved on and just accepted that part of my body for what it is20 Reply
6 modepends on the girl🤷🏻♀️
50 ReplyThey shouldn't. Small breasts are lovely in so may ways.
10 Reply- 315 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
6 moNo, they don’t have my face 😂
32 Reply- 6 mo
Hahaha well done @itsannalee
6 moIn my experience, yes as they recieve more attention!
10 Reply
6 moIf I were female, I would envy woman with medium breasts!
10 Reply
6 moAs usual, some do some don't...
30 Reply792 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. @halil-y can't say anything
11 Reply
6 moHaha no. I'm good
10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)6 moThey shouldn't, because not all the guys are into large breasts.
00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)6 moGenerally, yes. Larges breasts generally look better on women, so most women prefer that. Obviously there are some exceptions.
00 Reply890 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Not while playing tennis.
00 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)6 moSome do, some don’t.
10 Reply- 463 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
6 moThey should.
10 Reply
6 moNo need for it
10 Reply
Do women with big breasts think they are better than women with smaller?
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News 
