Does having small breasts make you any less of a woman?

Question

a guy told me that having small breasts is masculine, isn't feminine what so ever, and having them even makes you less of woman.

He also compared "flat chested" women to little boys
He says we're both short, we sound the same, and a lot of times look alike.

I know not all guys would say something like that
But is this what men really think?

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

-"I know not all guys would say something like that"
(Yes! you should fully be aware of that!)

-But is this what men really think?
(Of course not, different men might have different preferences but this is not how majority would think or believe)

-Is small breast masculine?
(Not at all. Whatever happens, small or big, the structure of women's breast remains the same. It's shape and Feminine functions stays the same forever and nothing can change it)

-Does shape matters at all?
(Many men might hold a preference but none of them is about how a particular size would make women to be less or more of something, when it comes to love and relationships sizes don't matter at all)

-Should you listen to him?
(Hell no! he is just another narrow minded, rude, insecure, stupid, unintelligent guy who find himself empty of moral and manner, don't listen to him nor take him seriously. He just have some big mouth. Do not let him to effect you)

-What should you do?
(Embrace your true self. Be who you are, love how you are and enjoy your life to the fullest. You are beautiful the way you born to be. Your breast are fine and sexy the way it is. Do not change it for the demands you receive and don't allow unqualified individuals to get through you with their idiotic ideologies)

-My personal view regarding the topic?
(Breasts are sexy whatever the size and the shape comes to be! it's coming from an innocent straight male!!! besides, i get into relationship with a girl or interact with different women for who they are not for a piece of muscle/fat over their chest! breast size doesn't determine anything for me! plus, my girlfriend is small size and she have the sexiest breast on the planet! i love her and her breast the way it is and i don't want her to change and she is my Feminine Finnish girl, beautiful as hell! also, when you truly love someone, you will accept them the way they are instead of harassing them or trying to make them insecure or opening your photoshop and editing them the way you wish so)

Result: He is an idiot + unqualified * your value is much higher + you're awesome the way you are - remove the negative thoughts + Be yourself = Happiness.

Cross the message toward him and similar people from now on!
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Good luck.

SomeGuy37 · Accepted Answer

When I am with a woman, I am with HER, because of WHO she is!! I don't need her to be a specific body type, or anything.
If I am with her, we have some connection!
While I do prefer, small breasts, with easily excited nipples, I would never use 'breast size' as a defining criteria, for being with her!
I have been with a few, that didn't need a bra, barely an 'A', and loved being with THEM, not their breasts!!
If someone, a guy, probably, says you are less of a woman, or criticizes you, because your natural, perfect breasts are small, tell him to F**k OFF!!
Breast size has nothing to do with a relationship, or a sensual experience between partners!!
Ultimately, LADIES, you need to choose your 'guy' more wisely!! I see SOOOO many posts, here, about wonderful women, with total D-bags!!
I'm not defending them, for being D-bags, but why do you keep choosing THOSE guys, and then complain that they are so terrible?
Change your dating ideal, and find someone that will just ADORE you, FOR YOU!!

Hollywood-Glam · Accepted Answer

Having small breasts doesn't make you less of a woman. You don't see a man with small boobs, right? lol. I can understand with having no breasts at all makes you unfeminine, zero, nada, as flat as a sheet of paper, not just a small bust but rather a non existent one. The model Freja Beha Erichsen has a completely flat chest. When I first saw her in Karl Lagerfeld's short film, 'The Tale of a Fairy', she was topless in some scenes and I thought she looked very masculine. She had no bra on by the way ( cause *literally* non existent boobs). A topless Freja is basically the same as a topless dude. Ignoring her pretty bangs, in that movie she looked like a guy with long hair, lol. If she had a boyish haircut we would think she is a man. Anyway, small boobs are still boobs, they're specifically on a woman's body, thus they're feminine. Okay, maybe the small ones compared to the big ones aren't that feminine, let's not neglect that, lol. My point is no breasts at all make you less of a woman, not the small ones. This guy clearly hasn't seen Freja Beha in Karl Lagerfeld's movie, lol.

notamy · Accepted Answer

it's mostly in genetics and somewhat in weight. I have met girls who are bigger and have booty and everything and still feel relatively flat. likewise I have a friend who is 4'9 and her boobs are huuuge (which by the way sucks because custom bras and back pain and all your shirts stretch out and boys are immature AF).
your genetics affect your fat distribution and unfortunately there isn't a lot you can do about it in the breast department. increased estrogen can play a role in growing breast tissue but as long as your hormones are balanced (IE. no PCOS or Cushing's or whatever) I really wouldn't worry about it
another fact is that breast milk production isn't affected by the size of your breasts, just how much you can store, if that's relevant to anyone.
all boobs are good boobs. remember to poke around once in a while for self examination for lumps or irregularities

this guy is dumb AF. I say kick him.

Goodnightcharlie · Accepted Answer

This is what I am learning being here in this group. One day everyone is going to realize how much time they waisted on other people's opinions. These types of opinions are simply that "people's opinions." There seems to be hope the majority of society will rule in the OP's favor. Not to learn about a behavior but in hope the majority finds them attractive. Here's the thing... who gives a SHIT. Your opinion of your body is the only one that matters. It doesn't matter how many men like small boobs. The right person for you will love you no matter. Two married girls I know had small breast both lost their breast to cancer. One husband stayed the other left his wife. Be happy you have breasts. Be confident because YOU have learned to love your breasts. Not because 50% of men would like to play with them.

(With most opinions if mine is with the majority I start to think twice... again)

LaFemmeFatale · Accepted Answer

How small? I have small B cup and I love them, really, they are so perky and beautiful.
Small boobs are comfortable, aristocratic and cute.
It doesn't make you less of a woman It makes him less of a man to say so.

Dtherockhaugen · Answer

My girlfriend is self conscious about this, so i had to come here and share my whole take on it. Boob size doesn't matter in any way. That doesn't make you less than you really are. Men who truly like a woman don't care about their physical appearance. If you want bigger boobs, go at it, but women with bigger boobs tend to complain about them. "My boobs jump and i hate it" " they're too heavy" trust me, big boobs are nothing. Having shorter hair doesn't make you less of a woman, so even if there are just nipples, you're still a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not! You have managed to find the 1 or 2 immature guys that think like that. If you are COMPLETELY flat, and I mean no shape AT ALL there, nothing, not even a little, it can be a bit comparable to a "boy" but even then, it doesn't change the fact that you are a woman, and still act like a woman! You still have a vagina, have the soft skin, and the personality of a woman which completely eliminates that thought/thinking. Ignore ANY guy that says this. And DO NOT get a boob job! Most guys (or a lot) do NOT prefer it. Yes it "might" (and do mean might) look better, but not feel better. Nothing worse then touching implants! (also just look fake and unnatural). I'd far, far rather a flat chested woman then implants. In the end, unless it's just sex, it's about the WOMAN as a person, not her breasts.

elbicho · Answer

That guy's a dick, you should have open handed his junk.
In my experience, women with smaller breasts tend to be more sensitive in that area. & also with women that have small breasts I don't have to hear about how their back hurts or how hard it is for them to buy an outfit because they have to mix & match to get something that fits right. Or how people just think of them as tits with feet. And usually women with smaller breasts keep their figures longer, they don't have to worry about sagging grandma boobs & you get a better down shirt view that can include a peekaboo nipple instead of just cleavage.
Not that I have anything against big breasted women...

Pyrofox · Answer

Some guys like small, medium big, and some are the odd ones who like the unevenly sized breasts (as in exaggerated disproportionately sized.) O. o

Really what it comes down to is how a girl takes what she has as "assets" and uses them to her best of her ability. Such as if you lack in any category just learn how to mitigate that with maybe learning how to carry a interesting conversation. Or learn to carry yourself in more of a confident way.

Sometimes it just takes the time to just stop and notice what the mistakes could have been and just come up with a plan to make it better.

Adenn · Answer

In my opinion, having small breasts is sexy. There is nothing wrong with small breasts. There is also a LOT more to a woman than her chest and her V.

When it really comes down to it, a guy will be happy to be with a woman period. It won't matter what the size of her chest is or isn't.

ReReJayde · Answer

having small breasts does not make you any less of female then what having bigger breasts do.

i have never met a guy who has thought that small breasts make you unfeminine because that would be like us girls saying that a guy with a small penis isn't masculine.

Anonymous · Answer

Seriously? What kind of freaking delusional asshole would say that? There are lots of people using the dick analogy, but if you look closer, it's even more laughable than that- it'd be more like the equivalent of a woman telling a guy that having a less hairy chest is effeminate, isn't masculine whatsoever, and that not having a full-on thick carpet of chest hair even makes him less of a man, comparing the "bare chested" men to little boys. I'm one of the 1/3rd of guys who finds smaller breasts more attractive; in the same way, 1/3rd of girls find little to no chest hair more attractive.

capturemyheartnow · Answer

Other.----Boob size is important but it is not everything. Men have preferences for either small sized boobs , medium sized boobs and big sized boobs. According to science , men who like small boobs prefer submissive partners , are financially secure , aren't interested in fatherhood and are less sexist as compared to men who prefer large breasted women. Men usually prefer big boobs because it reminds them of motherhood. But most men prefer a boob size between "B and C" cup size. And they prefer perky and firm boobs , and not the saggy type.

sovetskii13 · Answer

I think being masculine or feminine has to do with personality and behavior. Mental; not physical. You are still a woman even with small boobs. You are still a man even if you are short or have small muscles. I think that guy was just being a jerk. Had to get some anger out of his system. So don't take it personally.

AriadneSky · Answer

kendall jenner has a c cup at least. i dont get the caption on her.

i think small breasts are attractive and feminine looking if the woman is thin. i like having small breasts. at my weight i wouldn't ant over a b cup even if i could choose. no thanks.

America1st · Answer

This guy you talked to is stuck in the Neanderthal times. Does his little dick mean he is a woman? No more than small boobs make you masculine. I have had many sized boobs over my life and small ones are wonderful. They all are! The guy is seriously lacking a brain. I wish the women who are small would keep them small. I hate boob jobs because they usually don't even feel or appear natural. As they say, you only need a handful.

egi22 · Answer

A guy told you that? He would be lucky to see them small as they are. Women have different bodies and men have different bodies. That's the beauty : diversity. If a guy does not like your breast size, so what? Move on and find a guy who feels happy to have you the way you are.

godfatherfan · Answer

Wow, that guy was a complete douchbag. I have to believe he was really young. I have only known a couple of men that would make breasts a pre-req for asking a woman out. And they were guys that were the worst of men. complete pigs.
Breasts are like a great bonus. if they are big, awesome. if they are small... they are still great. What is between a woman's legs is the most important and best part anyway..

dogbert444 · Answer

No! So many men like small boons. Real men aren't scared to say so.

These guys are talking rubbish. It may be their particular preference to have a girl with big boobs, but it certainly doesn't apply to all guys. Least of all me.

Anonymous · Answer

What a jerk. Many guys do NOT prefer big boobs but those who sometimes act self-righteous about their decision.

There are very successful actresses who have small boobs and they are considered attractive and sexy. Kate Hudson and Keira Knightley are two examples.

IRL, probably a third of guys actually prefer girls with smaller boobs. I almost always date petite women and my ideal is a petite girl with 32A-34B boobs. On a petite girl, they just look perfect!

AnswerMe44 · Answer

Firstly, if a guy ever says that, he doesn't deserve your time at all. He should be happy he actually gets to see some boobs.

I know I'm not a guy but I've been told by guys that different men have different preferences. Some of them said that small boobs are "cute" and more attractive to them than bigger ones. I think it really just depends on the guy. Hope this helped!

angela_GA · Answer

Don't worry, if you have small boobs there are many ways to make you look more feminine. It's not all about ur chest--dressing feminine is a major aspect to your appearance. Bright colors and a nice haircut will definitely make you look fantastic even if your bust is smaller. be confident! :)

TadCurious · Answer

The guy who said that to you is just a jerk, and just doesn't have an appreciation for the wonderful diversity of girls' bodies and the many different ways they can be attractive. And no, not all guys think like he does. Small breasts are just as sexy and beautiful as larger ones, and actually have advantages. That guy is just stupid.

DDtop · Answer

Breasts are beautiful what ever size big/small but the most important thing is the inner beauty of the person that they belong to.
You should have said but your not all the man you make out to be as you seem to have lost a lot below you sure you have one?
In life there is someone for everyone as we are all different but there's way too many arseholes that prey on others emotions because A there shallow b have no personality of there own worth the ink written in C are just Class A arseholes!

DarklordOdin · Answer

Not necessarily. While larger breasts usually indicate better fertility, I've noticed that the more petite women focus more on evolving as an honourable person, rather than just being a miserable, desperate pile of breasts using their body as a means to gain attention. Naturally, this is just how I have observed my peers, so it can't apply to everyone.

So no, it doesn't make you any less of a woman.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Small breast aren't bad... I know of a few pornstars that I think are gorgeous that have little boobs.

Also there is a difference between small boobs and flat chested. I do think that a young girl with No boobs/no ass... can look like a boy. I think that is natures way of letting guys know they aren't mature/out of puberty.

deusvult · Answer

I do think that most men prefer big tits. But there's still a lot of men who like small tits and a lot of men who like all sorts of tits.
In my opinion, small perky tits are the most aesthetic. Nothing worse than a woman whose breasts look like goddamn udders.

purplesparkle · Answer

As a someone with smaller bust, I have heard that kind of stuff sometimes. Not personally, people never really comment on my looks, but still, it does make you feel like you are missing something, like you are somehow incomplete...

You just need to understand that we can't plese everyone. Not all guys/girls find you attractive, but it's very likely that someone will, especially when it comes to different body shapes. And heck, often female faces I think are average are very pretty to guys...

Narts · Answer

tell him that having such a small dick makes him more feminine. i think small tits are better than big ones because big ones will sag.

slatyb · Answer

Wow, what an ass. There are plenty of guys who love small-breasted women.

Notorisch_Arschloch · Answer

Sounds like a shitty negger. (Read that again closer if you got mad, black people.) Lindsey Stirling's about a AA cup. Google her. She's about the ideal woman. This dude's a needle dicked bug fucker.

foxsquirrell · Answer

Physically it does make you less. But only slightly less. It makes you less because women are suppose to have breasts, and as everything else if they are out of proportion they are flawed, that is to say the woman physically would be flawed. But as I said only to a certain extent. You can still be very attractive and alluring even though you have small breasts.

Hidden_P · Answer

A guy once told me because I was small and chubby with big boobs I looked like a fat pig. Does that make me a pig? No. It makes the other guy an asshole. Same applies to you.

ProjectBaby1K · Answer

"I broke up with her because her boobs are too small" Said by no guy. Ever.

Maybe you just look masculine in addition to small breasts. It isn't and was never generally thought that small breast make you less of a woman.

TripleAce · Answer

Many of the sexiest women in the world have small breasts. But then again these women are also very attractive everywhere else

So depends. If you look like a potato with small breast, small titties will just add to that whateves look

EMoneyBagz · Answer

Please ignore the asshole who told u that. No, it doesn't make u less of a woman. Accept what u have n be confident about it. Confidence is sexy. Some of the most sexy women I've met were ugly as hell (not saying ur ugly lol)

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

You could say the same about his penis size. It's bullshit of course.
The girls I've been with were usually on the smaller chested side. It's not like I wouldn't be with a girl who has big breasts, they look fine too, but I prefer smaller ones.

akadatank44 · Answer

Nope! I love most sizes of breasts! Its all about what fits your body and proportional. I'm assuming you are petite. I never would expect a small petite woman to have massive boobs. If she did I'd almost think they'd be fake.

deraz24 · Answer

No regardless of that you can still look good, many people pull it off. He's ignorant and I wouldn't pay him any attention, any way you would be less of a woman is if you didn't have a vag

Sadly_It_Fell_Off · Answer

He's entitled to his opinions and preferences. But does a man having a small penis make him just like a boy too? I think not. All shapes and sizes and there's room for them all.

abc3643 · Answer

I think that guy is a douche and you should value his opinion the same as a kindergarten teacher values the opinion of a 5-year old in her class calling her a "poopyhead".

jacquesvol · Answer

That guy is just an ignorant asshole. I had different size girlfriends, and flat chested girlfriends too. I'm still very fond of them.

Anonymous · Answer

No, just like a small penis doesn't make a man any less of a man. If a person feels that way, it's because they are too insecure in themselves

CrystalPanda92 · Answer

Okay, so if a woman has small breasts it means they're masculine? So if he has a small penis that means he's feminine? I don't think so. Love your body for what it is and if people make fun then they're the ones with the problem.

archiz · Answer

Lol how old is that dude?
Honestly it a all about proportion...
I watched the movie nymphomaniac and the girls there had small boobies. It fitted their figure quite well. They looked womanly just the way they are.

spoonman2014 · Answer

You can't control your genetics so... But no I don't think they look masculine, if I had to choose between small perky boobs or big saggy ones, small and perky wins!

Anonymous · Answer

Small is very attractive I think. It's more fit and athletic looking, and usually will stay looking good when the girl is older.

erandal · Answer

I like small breasts on a woman and wish I had them myself.

adamski24 · Answer

I have said many times that I love small and tiny boobs myself so much more than the big and huge ones that just look wrong to me.

Guy_No1 · Answer

that guy is an absolute dickhead, what an idiot. so was this bloke a real man, all muscular and well hung, did he see himself as the poster boy for mankind.

Mariannadc · Answer

I want to have smaller breasts :/ everybody is unique and beautiful in their own way ^-^

writing_essays · Answer

Woman are woman because of what they do - not because of what they look like.

misstalia_95 · Answer

Honey you have got to stop listening to what Trump says. He's insane.

lostgirl_searching · Answer

No it does not, whoever told you that was just being rude.

mistixs · Answer

what a moron. be grateful for your small breasts, they help you filter out douchebags like that one.

Princeton18 · Answer

we've destined as a women and we destined how our body look like, include the size of our breast, wether it's flat, small or big, its must be the best for them. so just keep it natural (don't get any injection or smth)

ProfessorScrewEyes · Answer

what an asshole, seriously just ignore idiots like that

Anonymous · Answer

that guy sounds like a Twat. a lot of guys prefer smaller breasts, it does not make you any less of a woman. That's like saying a guy isn't a man because he has an average sized penis. ignore the cunt

Anonymous · Answer

That guy is an asshole. Seems like a tactic to make you insecure and get under you pants

BaileyisDarcy · Answer

He was trolling you and is a fuck head. Ignore the idiot.

Prochto · Answer

I dont like too big boobs , dont like as well too small boobs , middle sized and a bit big is awesome , however some girls can look so sexy with small boobs..

xjxssica · Answer

I have small boobs and I find myself very attractive lol and evidently the males do too

Boredguy123 · Answer

In a sense of literal mass I guess so... But in the way you are asking no...

Xfitchick · Answer

Just dump those guys. Its a matter of taste of course, but you should not tell it in a rude way.

Anonymous · Answer

You should ask him "is that what your mother told you about your small package"

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