If a girl texts me 'u up' late at night, is it ok to say I’m pulling up?

[Anonymous]

[egarcia1360]

That's almost certainly what she's looking for, but maybe give it a couple messages back and forth to feel her out and not seem too eager.

It'd help to know what time you mean by "late", and whether you have history together.

[Asker]

By late I mean it was like 11 pm. We have history but I never "pulled up". Also another problem is we are coworkers

[egarcia1360]

I see. I'd still lean towards her wanting you rather than not, but it's a little less obvious than I thought. Probably best to play it a little on the safe side, barring more signals. A simple "yeah, what's up" or similar is good to start, and if y'all get to flirting and it's going well, then you can bring up visiting her.

[queenofcardio]

Don't be too thirsty. Sometimes girls just wanna talk.

[Asker]

Never said anything about sex. I was saying pulling up to her neighborhood and we could talk in person

[queenofcardio]

Ohh then thats fine 🙂

[Still-alive]

Im a bit too thirsty lol 😂

[Asker]

I understand how crazy that looks because you probably thought I was trying to come to her house and I wouldn't do that. I didn't think coming to her neighborhood was an option because it was late.

[Abbycado]

Pulling up to what?

[Asker]

To her neighborhood. We could just talk

[Abbycado]

Why are you near her neighborhood?

[Asker]

I wasn't in her neighborhood. If I was gonna show up I was gonna ask

[Abbycado]

That’s creepy.

[Asker]

Okay

[HollyK21]

This has to the same dude repeatedly asking about a late night text he got from a woman which he clearly fumbled. You can’t change anything about that now, dude. Even if that weren’t the case and that wasn’t you, the window to ask about that text message has passed — it’s the next day. You said what you said IF you’ve already said it, or if you said nothing then leave it alone.

[Anonymous]

Damn kids these days!

[Anonymous]

It's your choice what to say.