Is she being flirty or friendly and joking?

[bobalife]

The other day at work, I was waiting for the elevator to open… and when it did opened I was gonna step in right away. But my female co-worker was also right infront of me trying to step out of the elevator. Then, she said loudly, “you almost kissed me!”

I was so confuse bc I know girls we play around, but I’ve never had a girl joke like that before…

I playfully yelled back as she was already walking off “I wouldn’t mind” and I can hear her go “Ohhhhh!”

Updates

1 mo

by the way we aren’t close. I rarely see her. But we are pretty nice to each other. One of our first few conversations kind of begin when one day she came into work and stared at me saying I looked like a Chinese princess even though I literally just dress in formal work attire as usual lol. She wouldn’t stop staring and hyping me up. We started talking more after that, but we still don’t really see each other due to our work schedules lol. She did started liking lots of my IG stories lately.

Updates

1 mo

For those who wanted an update, I briefly saw her this evening and tonight during my late shift. She definitely was trying to vibe with me a lot.. I can tell she really likes me, but I’m not exactly sure in a platonic or romantic way. But I did noticed when I suddenly was going to leave at our first encounter she gave me a longing sad look. And I guess the second time I saw her… she stared at me with a quietness that I never noticed before since she’s usually a yapper. There was a girl next to

Updates

1 mo

Her who kept saying I’m adorable and loves the way I dressed. Then, she started saying I’m a fashionista and stuff. I looked at her and say she’s also a fashionista who’s always super cute. Then, she gave me that same quiet stare. But as always I’m super busy and left after a brief conversation. I probably won’t see her again after awhile since our schedules is everywhere lol. But that’s the update for those who wanted to know lol.

[Screenwriter]

Ask her for coffee when you see her next. Then you can find out if it's just joshing or she interested. If she says "No," you'll have your answer. Good luck.

[bobalife]

That’s sweet suggestion… but I don’t wanna ask a girl on a date if I’m not interested lol. I was just curious haha. It takes a min for me to be interested in anyone generally. But once I like someone, I really like them.

[bobalife]

Tbf I can see her saying yes but I don't know she probably thinks it’s us being friends as we are friends lol. But I wouldn’t wanna make it into a date since I’m not interested (yet) lol.

[ElenaSeluna]

It depends on your relationship with that coworker…. I joke around with my female coworkers, and this would be a playful one.. but only with some of them who I’m close to. It’s definitely would not be flirting in my case..

[msc545]

Spend a little more time with her. Maybe invite her to go do something after work, like a drink or get something to eat or something social like that and see how it goes. Sounds to me like she might be interested in you.

[bobalife]

Lol almost everyone is encouraging me to explore this… it’s giving me the wrong idea to be curious about her when I wasn’t really at first and maybe now I am starting to be esp when she keeps liking my instagram things lol 🥲

[msc545]

Well why not a nice relationship could develop out of it or at least maybe a nice friendship. Those don't come along everyday.

[ohsheeT]

It sounds like there us some form of attraction and that can sometimes be a good start of a friendship it has to start someplace and flirting is a good why to start . I want to work where you work lol

[bobalife]

Haha why do you wanna work where I am?

[ohsheeT]

So I can be on the elevator getting off while you're getting on LOL or wait were you getting off and I would be getting on I forget now which way it was but tonight I have to figure out what I would say LOL

[Mayorofbobaville]

As a man I would say flirting but the female mind is complicated lol. Would love updates on the story though 😊

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife thanks for the update

[bobalife]

You’re welcome, what did you think of the update mayor?

[Mayorofbobaville]

@bobalife she’s into you.
The quiet staring when she’s usually talkative, the way she looked when you were leaving, plus all the compliments and IG attention… that’s not just regular coworker vibes. That’s her feeling you but not really knowing how to play it yet.
It ain’t super direct, but the energy’s there for sure. Especially the tension. Seems like you guys are waiting for the other to make the move. Y'all gotta chill together
If nobody makes a move, it’s just gonna stay in that “what if” zone

[Nikki1989]

It's hard to say for sure, but since I am bisexual, if she does flirt with you, make the most of it. Meeting other bi women is extremely rare.

[MrChinaski]

That has not been my experience.

[NathanDavis]

even some dudes would do that... but more like "wtf... dude" and joke about it, lol

[bobalife]

Lmao bromance huh? Are you saying this is what it is? I’m used to straight girls kissing my cheeks but lips is somethin else lol

[NathanDavis]

nah... just people bumping into each other

[WhitneySnow]

I think she likes you likes you

[bobalife]

What makes you think so?

[WhitneySnow]

Just because of what she said and how she acts around you. i could be wrong, just a feeling I get. Of course, being a coworker she may choose never to act on her feelings.

[Still-alive]

flirty but not sure if its the serious kind. maybe talk to her more to find out more

nice to see ya again

[Still-alive]

Update: i say its possible she’s attracted. ;)

[bobalife]

Lmao I don't know if only men thinks that way, but thanks. Hi friend 😂

[Still-alive]

Good luck 👍🏻😎

[bobalife]

She’s very pretty & hot, I don’t mind it lol

[Still-alive]

Sounds like she doesn't mind either hehe

[AviatorTom]

That sounds like friendly flirty joking.

So long as you both smiled, no harm, no foul.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Those kind of women are dangerous. Glad you're not a man.

[bobalife]

Wait what why?😂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

She could be either of the three but also trying get you in trouble is another option.

[bobalife]

Wdym? Lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Think about it if she was serious acting like a victim. That could ruin your reputation.

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Definitely flirting hahah... its cute though

[bobalife]

I guess she was being cute… Do you think me and her would be cute?

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

That's definitely cute. Are you interested in women?

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

I mean @bobalife

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Its bobalife and not booblife? 🤣🤣

[bobalife]

I think almost everyone’s responses here are slowly making me curious or notice her a little now more than I was meaning to lol. I am a bisexual princess ☺️ I am very new to being out and learning about my sexuality. At the end of the day, I just want my person to be my person rather it’s a guy or girl though lol.

[bobalife]

Def Bobalife lol.

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Olalala... Haha that's sexy. I am bicurious too... But definitely I am straight, but just curious. I am sure you are enjoying the new phase. Any exploration recently? @bobalife

[bobalife]

What’s sexy? Lol. Oh are you? I don’t think I’ve ever met a bicurious man lol. I love my queer community, everyone is so nice and loving 🌈☁️🫶🏻 Oh, sad story is when I find out a couple years ago I was bi.. I got with my ex boyfriend and never got to explore it lol. And then I was super busy with a promotion and graduate school. The small moments I felt like I had some mutual attraction with women was once at the club end of 2024 and last year, but it didn’t go anywhere and I finally just finish school lol. I haven’t really been searching for anyone yet. If it happens, it will happen. Wbu?

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

Sounds interesting, do you mind sending a text and we can talk more?

[bobalife]

Sure :)

[gymFreakRomanticAss]

I still think she is flirty lol @bobalife

[bobalife]

Why is that?

[DryGermanGuy]

That reads like a porno scene plot… 🤭

[Jennz6]

Have you kissed her yet? 💕

[bobalife]

Oh no, I was just curious if she was being flirty or friendly?

[Jennz6]

@bobalife
Sounds like you are bi-curious “ Kiss her in the elevator next time “

[bobalife]

I am bi but I never got women experience yet since it’s recent lol. Do you think she’s flirty or just friendly? Speaking of the devil, she just liked my IG story now lol. I am just slowly noticing her attention on me.

[bobalife]

And oh no, I can never kiss anyone at work… there’s camera everywhere. I def do not wanna be fire 😅😂😭 I guess lots of coworkers are attracted to me though lol.

[Jennz6]

@bobalife sounds Flirty to me, she is probably bi too. Is she good looking?

[Jennz6]

@bobalife
Ask her for a drink 🥃 after work

[Jennz6]

@bobalife
🥰 I’m bi too

[bobalife]

She’s super pretty and hot, but I rarely see her at work lol. I get so busy when I’m working. I don't know if I wanna mixed romance at work and if it will cause drama since it feels like a couple people are attracted to me lol. But I would hang with her bc we’re friends. I’m not really good at stepping outside being friends tho since that’s weird to me lol. I love my queer peeps 🫶🏻☺️

[bobalife]

I think part of why I don’t have exp yet with women is bc I always fumble the friendship part when really pretty and hot girls get at me or they’re taken😭😭😭

[Jennz6]

@bobalife I’m single 💋🥰

[bobalife]

I’m flatter, but sorry I’m not really looking for anything on here 🥹

[slatyb]

definitely flirty. ask her to lunch.

[bowenw]

It sounds flirty to me.

[Bklynbadboy12]

She was definitely flirting

[exitseven]

You dog, you

[bobalife]

What? Lol