How can I get over a crush I never had the courage to ask out?

[Anonymous]

I have not seen her in over a month im pretty sure she is done with me. I honestly regret not asking for her number but i guess my body image held me back. My depression has kicked in again and i have been crying a lot which is not very masculine at all i feel like a child again. How can i get over her?

[Master_Debator]

This kind of stuff has only happened to me when I'm NOT FUCKING OTHER WOMEN. So there is a solution and a quick way to move on... FUCK SOME OTHER WOMEN.

You can do the magic route though... jerk off about her into a sock and then burn the sock. Trust me bro... it's magic. Just trust me bro... I have no proof.

[Anonymous]

By realizing it likely wouldn't have worked out anyways. But not because you're not good enough. But because she would likely not have been smart enough to see your value. This is a good thing! Because there is another woman down the road one that is perfect for you. And the good news is that gives you more time to keep growing, keep getting better etc. That way when you meet her you can be the perfect man for her 👍💯

[smashleyy]

It takes time to get over things. Not much you can do but wait it out till it stops hurting. Crying isn't masculine nor feminine it is simply an emotion and its better for you not to suppress it as it regulates your nervous system

[RRT_7511]

Honestly time heals, you just gotta give yourself time, and maybe do something you like

[KittygosMeoWW]

Why didn’t you ask her

[Asker]

I already did say it was my body image i am overweight to be exact. I guess i was not sure if she would like me back although she did smile at me a couple times although i think if she really cared she would have said something to me we did talk a little bit. It doesn't matter anymore i guess it's over

[KittygosMeoWW]

Unless you’re extremely obese most women don’t care

[Asker]

Wish i knew that beforehand i really have no dating experience and i regret not putting more effort in but it's my loss, i guess. Im gonna try to exercise more and lose weight so i can have more confidence next time.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Just work on yourself and being more confident