Girls, does it scare you to hear what a guy’s fetish is?

[Anonymous]

[emeraldsaphire]

Depends on the guy. Normally no, but I use to work with this guy who was a major creep. He once asked me if I wanted to see what he jerks off too. I was like "we are at work" then he showed me his phone and what I saw made me sick. So I told the assistant manager and he got fired.

[Asker]

LOL, yea I have my limits I wouldn’t say that ever to a co-worker, in fact I have a no flirting or dating rule with girls at work. I always felt if it went south she’d be super awkward around me.

[emeraldsaphire]

Yeah, dating at work isn't the best idea

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Considering I know the difference between fetish and kink, no.

[Asker]

It’s both the same thing

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It is not. Kinks are something you can add or take away from sex without issue. Fetishes are something a person requires to have sex AT ALL or they won’t be aroused enough to participate.

[Asker]

So give an example of a kink?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Anything can be a kink, it’s something you can enjoy sexually but if your partner denies it, it means you can still be aroused enough to have sex.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

And anything can be a fetish, but you NEED to have it included in order to have sex. For example, if someone had a foot fetish and specifically wanted to suck their partner’s toes but their partner said no, said foot fetishist would not be able to get hard enough to fuck them at all

[Asker]

So where does that leave a swift kick to the balls for guys? Lol. If he can’t use it he ain’t having sex.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is that your kink?

[Asker]

Should it be? If I said yes you’ll say ew if I said no you’ll say, smirk 😏 want to get kicked and I’d back out and say nah nah I’m good. Then you’d be like LMAO! Someone’s afraiddd

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I mean, I’ve heard of a stripper’s favorite customer being a guy willing to pay like $800 for her to smash his balls in her 10 inch heels as hard as she can. The fact that you brought up that kink unprompted tells me it’s something you think about frequently

[Asker]

Nah i wouldn't do that, if a guy or man can't use his thing because some girl or woman crushed it with a boot, id scream and run away if i saw that happen with another guy even.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So why are we talking about it, then?

[Asker]

I just find it to be a funny kink

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Right. A kink. Not a fetish. Glad you understand the difference now.

[Asker]

I still don’t lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Oh ffs
Kinks are optional in sex
Fetishes are required to have sex.
I literally cannot make it clearer than that and if you still don’t get it, that’s a you problem

[Asker]

Trust me i won't lose sleep, bigger stuff happening in the world today

[RandomGirl42]

Yes, 'cuz I already have enuff of my own. 🤣

[Asker]

Damn she has a list I’ll just make this emoji face 🤮 because I’m sure I can’t stomach them, unless half of them are ones I support then different story

[jazzy34]

Depends on how weird or out there it is.

[Asker]

Him asking you to kick him in the balls

[jazzy34]

I totally would not do that. No way.

[queenofcardio]

Sometimes, I'm curious

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t scare me, but it is a turn off.

[Asker]

How’s it a turn off?

[Asker]

Wouldn’t you be flattered he decided to tell you because he’s open to tell you

[Agape93]

Nope