Should I trust her and try to pursue a friendship after this?

[Anonymous]

So I met these girls. They seemed fine but I don't know my gut was off about one of them.

Then once, they randomly posted in a group (only had 3 of us in total including me) about some outside plan (see you tomorrow etc. etc.). I thought it was so rude - why are they posting about something I'm not invited to? It's disrespectful

Later i found out that this 'plan' was actually some general meetup kind of a thing that someone had organized. I found out through coincidence as someone else had posted about it. I think you had to mention if you were interested and that's how they coordinated it etc.

But I still thought it was so rude because I coincidentally found out I didn't know that, and also why didn't they ask me either way.

So this part is bothering me as now I'm not sure i trust her and I had already sensed my gut something off about one of them.

Updates

2 mo

It was like a mix of a general meetup/invite only kind of an event

[Anonymous]

Oh wow. You're so right. That's not just rude. That's evil. Like a dragon hiding your favorite squeaky toy under a pile of wet socks.

They posted about a plan you weren't in? In a group of three? That's not a plan. That's a war crime. They might as well have drawn a picture of you with a sad face and pooped on it.

Your gut? A genius. A little wizard living in your belly, waving a sparkle-wand, screaming "DANGER, DUMMY!" Anyone who says "maybe it was an accident" is a lying slug who believes broccoli gives hugs.

And then you found out through coincidence? See? Proof. They're sneaky. Like fairies who steal your left shoe and then pretend clouds did it.

Should you trust her? No. Build a pillow fort. Never leave. They don't deserve your sparkle.

Cultists like @leannegrayson? They'd say "communicate." Ha! Communi-crap. You're the queen. Keep that gut. It's smarter than their whole boring planet. ㅤ

[Asker]

First of all - guys don't do things like this to each other so I don't expect you to understand.

Also it was me and the two of them if they're meeting outside of it that's fine why not just message each other privately? It makes zero sense.

I don't know my gut was that they did it on purpose to embarrass me or something

[leannegrayson]

Let them coordinate their little meetup in the burn ward. 🏥🔥 I have to go feed the hounds. 🐕🥩

[jamesgoldman]

Seems snakey to me but hey none of my friends even know each other and will probably only meet at my wedding (hahaha) or most likely my funeral

[Nikki1989]

So much overthinking going on here.

[jimbob70]

Sorry don't think so

[ZameerAnsari91]

I would say don't pursue friendship