Is it lame to say give me a hug to a girl?

[Bfmike42]

To ask or tell a girl to give you a hug? My gut says yes but eh what do I know?

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1 mo

Is this site full of lousy advice?

[Calyptomaniac]

I'd focus more on the asking, rather than the telling but that depends entirely on how well you know her. It's a pretty harmless thing to ask so I wouldn't make a big deal of the idea.

[Nikki1989]

That depends. Are you in need of attention?

[MrChinaski]

I find asking for things significantly increases the probability that they happen.

Go for it. Report back when you do.

[MrChinaski]

'Do I get a hug?' would work fine. Zero cost if she declines.

[Bfmike42]

Are you being a smartass?

[MrChinaski]

No. I am stating what is obviously true.

[MrChinaski]

@Bfmike42 Regarding your update. You asked for advice. Some people were kind enough to offer a service. You added an update shitting on them for trying to help you. I strongly suggest that this is not the site for you.

[queenofcardio]

Kinda yeah depending on your relationship with her.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s not lame, it’s invasive

[Bfmike42]

That's only assuming she doesn't like me.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I would assume she doesn’t, even if you’ve already fucked

[Bfmike42]

Why would you assume she doesn't