Why is a black girl liking Middle Eastern men called self-hate, but not black men preferring white or Latina women?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

No one is calling it self-hate. You're just being a pita for the sake of seeming interesting. No one is talking about interracial or same-gender couples anymore unless they're being paranoid.

So... if it's a real question about someone you specifically are interested in then you're just being paranoid.

[Asker]

Actually someone in previous post did call me a self hater and this isn’t no paranoid

[Asker]

She literally commented on my post again seriously I’m not paranoid 😂

[DishLady]

So did you not simply figure out that she is ridiculous and just move on?

[Asker]

Ok thanks I’ll take your advice

[MerakSahibi]

In many societies, there is a mindset of, 'We'll take daughters-in-law, but we won't give away our daughters.' When a woman takes her husband's surname after marriage, it is not merely an administrative change on an ID card. In practice, she comes under her husband's household and authority, adopts his culture, and the children are generally raised within that cultural framework.

[genericname85]

a black girl liking Middle Eastern men is absolutely not called self-hate. People who say that are quite obviously racist. It is what it is.

[Anonymous]

They did used to say black men dating outside their race is self-hate.

But like the other person said they don't care about that anymore.

[Abbycado]

Says who? Anons?

[Asker]

Some lady said that in my previous post that is self hate and racist due to my preference

[Mariogirl09]

O dont worry. It still is.

[Anonymous]

That’s also self hate

[Asker]

You again

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Because racism

[413kim]

never heard that