Why do white and Asian men hate black girls:(?

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I am really attracted to White and Asian guys and im a black girl but I've either been rejected by white or Asian guys or they just show no interest in me and when i was telling my friend about it (she is white) she said she saw on a survey that black girls are the least desired race especially by Asian guys, why is this? what is it about black girls that make up fall into the "least desired" zone? and why are white girls seen as the most desired? its just skin colour right

Starrk · Accepted Answer

Its not a skin color thing, more so it a culture and society thing. in my opinion I blame the Media/Hollywood for damaging black women appeal. Black women are always stereotyped in films/music/tv shows to be the obnoxious, loud, inconsiderate, and most rachet people. This along with the stereotype of Asian men has made them become not as desired among others.

Not to mention the Media/Hollywood is a white mans industry so it common sense that they would prop their own women up along with their physical features (long hair, small nose, pale skin, small lips) as ideal, thus making anyone that doesn't fit that description as undesirable.

Anyway all white and Asian guys don't feel that way. Because down here in Florida, I see more interracial couples and biracial kids then I see damn palm trees, and thats saying something.

shyguy227 · Accepted Answer

Really when did I as a white guy start doing this?
I would like to know : P

But that being said it may just be down to personal taste some guys have a preference, screw the statistics. If I listened to the statistics I would think some of the most crazy ideas simply cause the media is trying to get to think a certain way.

Princy-Nay · Accepted Answer

Yes honey, it is just a skin color! Its just probably the guys you fall for that are "racist". Sweetie, black girls are the hottest , most gifted creations {lets be real we as sisters are the full package hips, boobs, and banging asses!} which other race has such? Lol... The point is attraction depends with the person, despite skin color, so just flirt around with white/Asian boys, show em how black girls do it! In no time, you'll be dating the race of your dreams❗😉

DailyAlice · Accepted Answer

lol that's racist and not true... it really depends on your geographical location.

but from what I see (and i see others stated the same) Asians usually only date each other. Even in my city which is huge and extremely multicultural, it's true for us too... but it's rare you'll see them dating others. I don't know about white guys.. what do you mean by "white"? Does this include european and middle eastern men? cus it's definitely not true for them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Asians find pale skin more attractive. tan skin or darker skin used to be a more common skin tone for the poorer people in Asia like farmers and fairer skin was seen as pure and clean.
I'm assuming white people just don't find black girls attractive most of the time. but, look at our history, it's not that unbelievable.

SakuraChii · Accepted Answer

It's not them it's just the type of guys your talking to some have racial preferences some don't care, I'm black I don't have much problems with guys so in a way your generalizing. guys like pretty girls in general, that survey isn't realistic since it's not of the real world.

RationalMale · Answer

Seriously? If we don't want to date a certain race, we "hate" them? Yeah, no.

Speaking as a white guy, we generally don't want to date black girls for a variety of reasons.

1. We find white girls way more attractive. We are white, after all, so it's just natural we find our own group's women more attractive. Like, way more. That's not a slam to you, I'm sure most sources agree that caucasians and Africans developed as races for thousands of years before we met each other. Black girls just aren't our type. (unless you date a thirsty virgin on this website, haha)

2. Black culture is repellent to us, for the most part.

3. Black girls, in my experience, are very often overweight/ghetto/have major attitude problems, that we don't want. Maybe being so close to Atlanta taints my sampling, but still.

4. Yes, white guys prefer to get white girls. Shared culture, shared history, to a degree, and it's just instinct. You dance with your group.

Prof_Don · Answer

It is because of influence of the media (magazines, television, popular music, the beauty industry, etc.)

White is the beauty standard in the western world... and black ppl's features are the most contrasting to the mainstream media standard.

HikerDude · Answer

The real issue here is that people like people who like them. White and Asian guys aren't going to mess with you if they believe that you're not into them.

As a white guy, I've never seen or heard of a black girl being into white guys. White guys talk all the time about how fine Beyonce or Halle Berry is, but I've never heard a black girl express any interest in a white celebrity or athlete.

So this is really an issue of mutual distrust and assumed disinterest.

RinXD · Answer

Generally because black women tend to have a lot of social drama or act ghetto and most of us do not find that attractive espeically men who seek intellectual stimulation. Not to mention most parents of black girls generally dont treat a white guy whos dating their daughter with the best of attitudes.

blondfrog · Answer

It depends really about their environment too I don't care what anyone says we humans tend to judge people not only by personality, but the environment someone lives in, the way they talk, the clothes that they wear, the groups they hang out with that sort of thing so maybe its not cause or your skin color, but cause of any of those things I just mentioned.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's funny when people ask questions like this " why do people like or not like me because of my skin tone ".. BUT YET ONLY like people of a certain skin tone... sooo hypocritical.. you only see their" white skin ".. But you don't want them to she your skin. WTF? ... fucking annoying

meatballs21 · Answer

I don't hate black girls. I don't like ghetto ratchet hoodrats, which is a personality type that can transcend race.

Anonymous · Answer

It might be culture... the whole hip-hop/rap, "gangsta" thing. Obviously not all black people are into that, but it's the stereotype that gets a lot of media play.

Personally, I have known some black ladies who were very attractive and cool people. One reason that scared me away from dating them was the "stereotype" of black men being hung. I naturally assumed that black women would expect their partners to be on the larger side.

TripleAce · Answer

Listen hun it's just a preference to be honest.  It's not only skin colour. It's features, culture, attitudes, likes and dislikes, character, swag. The family your marrying into

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

well from what I've seen, Asians usually date in their own pool.

hypno-trip · Answer

It really depends. I see a user on here called Thathoodgirl that is black girl I find very physically attractive, but there are other black girls I'm not interested in. It really is based on the individual.

TheGuyFromMiddleEast · Answer

It's about social norms. We Asian boys (i'm close enough, don't hit me!) are kinda white but not completely. We want to be completed by a white girl so we can have a white family.

Cryostatic · Answer

don't know. I think a lot of black girls are hot.  Not really into Asians though.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Asians are ethnocentrric. They like to preserve their culture and prefer white skin instead.

StickStickity13 · Answer

My close friend from Moldova who is white really likes black girls. They are out there just keep looking.

Anonymous · Answer

Sorry just not interested sexually in black women but you all are the best singers and I would love to work with you professionally.

KiaTate · Answer

Its probably just negative stereotypes that make black women "least desired".

Anonymous · Answer

To me black girls are just unattractive and loud/obnoxious.

Jimmy0828 · Answer

Not at all I'm a white man and my wifes Mixed and I dated black girls in the past.

Izzex3 · Answer

Stereotypes play a role.

1fingerpunch · Answer

I've seen men that date everything...

hotstuffSRD · Answer

By Asian you mean which country?

Dont_Judge_Me · Answer

I like black girls

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