Would you go to this party if you were me?

[Anonymous]

So the thing is, this girl invited me to a party.

However she also kind of negged me while inviting me.

Not 100% sure as to why, but if I were to guess I think she thought that I am not as into hanging out with her. So like kinda shading me

it’s not that I had other plans that day

[valentina4eva]

how close are u with her normally?🤔 from ur other replies she sounds 2-faced😬

[Anonymous]

Ok how did she neg you? Hard to say w out context as well as being there to see it. A lot of women hear things the way they want to hear it when it wasn’t even said that way.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Girls are so dramatic

[Asker]

They can cause real harm

[Anonymous]

How did she neg you?

[Asker]

She was like you can take the bus and it’s like 10 mins from there…if anything I can pay for your Uber.

She knows I often take the Uber and have never really taken the bus. Plus a ten minute Uber ride is like I don't know 6 bucks?

My gut was she was trying to put me down like bring down my confidence. Ans my gut is rarely wrong

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you’re right. If you are, then I guess don’t go.

[Asker]

Yeah. I guess like I haven’t even responded to her.

Whaf was weird is after that message a day later she sent me another message which was like sugary sweet.

Strange

[Opinion Owner]

She sounds like a bitch. Her party isn’t worth it.

[Asker]

Yeahh it was like about some art she did (we had been talking about it before)

Honestly I’m not sure what she wants from me but I agree I should stay away something is off