When it comes to girls, does what you say and your energy matter?

[Anonymous]

[valentina4eva]

yess ofc!!💯 why would what u say and ur energy towards us not matter?🤔🤔 maybee i don’t understand lol

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely. This matters to whoever you are talking to.

People on this site that say anything different are obviously clueless morons.

[Chayce]

Of course lmao. You think being negative and unfun around a woman you just met will work in your favour?

[Levin]

It's all energy. Everything else is pretty much irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

is this a job interview? Why should it matter

[RachyRach]

Absolutely. Confidence is key.

[Asker]

Seriously?

[RachyRach]

Seriously

[Asker]

So if you ask to hang out in a vague, passive or hesitant way it might not happen?

[RachyRach]

Yeah. If you sound unsure then why would I wanna hangout?

[Asker]

Right. If a guy asks you to hang out do you work on a plan together?

[RachyRach]

If it's the first time? No. He should plan it if he asks. If we've been hanging out for a while then yeah we can co-plan

[Asker]

Wait I'm confused. Why should he plan it? Do you prefer if he just came right out with a plan?

[RachyRach]

Well if he asks to hangout I'd hope he has a plan in mind

[Asker]

Of course but you don't want to work together on the plan?

[RachyRach]

Nope. Not the first time we hangout. His decisions of what to do that first time can tell me a lot about the kind of person he is. And I like when a man takes the lead. It's very sexy to me.

[Asker]

Got it. Do you think a lot of girls think like this?

[RachyRach]

Most girls do.

[Asker]

I see. Thanks for the advice.

Hypothetically if a guy made like a crush post about you on social media and you swiped up would you want him to ask you out?

[RachyRach]

Yeah. Don't be a keyboard warrior who is brave to post on socials and then too scared to do something about it in person.

[Asker]

Why would you expect him to ask you out?

[RachyRach]

Cos if he's posting that kind of thing then clearly he wants to ask me out. So just do it.

[Asker]

Would you say yeah?

[RachyRach]

Depends if I feel a vibe or not. Not everyone gets a yes lol

[Asker]

Right. If you or any girl tell a guy you want to be close what does that mean?

[RachyRach]

Lol that I wanna be his friend

[Asker]

That's all?

[RachyRach]

Yup that's friendship language for sure

[Asker]

I agree. Me and this girl who were coworkers were texting and she said that.

[RachyRach]

Yup. You were friendzoned sorry about that haha

[Asker]

The friend zone doesn't exist. It's up to you to accept it because you don't.

[RachyRach]

As a woman I can tell you it exists.

[Asker]

As a guy I'm telling you it doesn't exist. It only exists if you choose to stay there. You can literally stop talking to her and that's it.

[RachyRach]

In that sense yes I agree with you. But I mean it exists in terms of there are guys that I will only ever be friends with and I know that no matter what they do, it'll never progress past friendship

[Asker]

Of course but it doesn't actually matter. There are other girls

[RachyRach]

Absolutely. Great mindset!

[DryGermanGuy]

¿Qué? 🤔

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Certainly