If I’m not rich, does that mean women won’t choose me at all?

[SazidRahman]

Does it mean that?

[tiredpanda]

No, absolutely not. This whole narrative that you need to be rich for women to choose you, or that all women are opportunistic and gold diggers, is bizarre. I’m not saying there aren’t women who prioritise money or go after wealthy men, because of course there are. But if we’re talking about finding a good woman and building something real and meaningful, you don’t have to be rich. There are far more important things that women look for in a potential partner, like your character, emotional maturity, kindness, compatibility, shared values and how you treat her.

[exitseven]

No, there are a lot of factor that go into finding a suitable partner and everyone has their own preferences.

[slatyb]

They chose me when I was a divorced parent and wasn't rich.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, money and physical are the big hitters

Over time it falls to how you are with kids and being emotionally capable

Given I'm poor, out of shape and emotionless, I'm already done for this lifetime

[Anonymous]

Depends on the woman. What you need is s woman who will build with you, not arrive after you built it.

[Anonymous]

I have never chosen a man based on anything to do with money.