Are women generally hoping they marry rich?

[Anonymous]

Generally yes

Generally no

Not sure

[Little_Bumblebee]

Not really.
Seems to me like there's a high chance that would be used against me in a relationship. Using money to end conversations, or making me have to be the one to do everything in the house.
Or say that because they provide all that money, I have to do everything he tells me to.
Or he would believe he can treat me like trash. Or cheat, because hey, they provide the money.
Or they might work all the time and again... not spend time with me because if that.

And let's say he wouldn't use his money against me. They wouldn't be abusive at all.
I still would hate feeling like a charity case, or being a burden.

So no. Growing up I see a lot of the dark sides of that particular coin.

Financially I have three things I'm looking for.
To be responsible with their money.
They have a job - or looking for one.
Not in debt - irresponsible debt at least.

[Simslover92]

No many of us just hope we marry smart. Meaning we marry a man that is emotionally available, intelligent, kind, loving, compassionate, and loyal.

[RavVid]

Even rich women want to marry richer. So how can t be pretended women don't marry for money?

[Anonymous]

well they generally ain't hoping to marry broke

[Avicenna]

Most know that will never happen.

[Nikki1989]

I didn't. I started making good money at 16. Never looked back to this day.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, but you're Ms Nikki. Michael Jordan didn't have to marry rich, either, although as beautiful as his first wife, Juanita is, who needs money?

[Nikki1989]

@Billlewis No woman should rely on a man for money. That is a recipe for a long, pitiful life.

[Billlewis]

No, and if the ratio of degrees professionals, male to female continues at its present rate, men will soon be relying on women for support... or not;)

[Nikki1989]

@Billlewis Oh I know a few men who rely on their women for money.

[Billlewis]

That would never work for me. Heck, a few years ago I was unemployed for a few weeks, and I was so bored I thought I'd jump out the window... lol. I've been programmed to labor for the benefit of the female, not the reverse. I've lived with women who owned the house, condo, etc in which we lived, but that's as far as it's ever gone. Men are the oxen who drag the plow; women steer and direct the plow.

[Account]

Nope. One of my biggest fears is feeling trapped and loss of control. Why would I ever hope to encounter one of my fears? That is absurd.

[Billlewis]

One would think so. It's not like they don't deserve it.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. I think most just want to be happy and truly loved.

[Jmmmfi4]

OBVIOUSLY YES

DO YOU EVEN NEED TO ASK

[Kelley1]

Are peaches fruit? Is fat meet greasy?

[Anonymous]

Everyone hopes that