What is the most attractive skill the opposite sex can have?

[Danny_dan92]

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It’s marked as girls behavior but the app is broken af lately and did not let me change the subject to dating.

[blueonblack22]

Not sure if it’s a skillset. But if a woman’s understands the concept of doing the right thing out of general principle that’s extremely attractive to me.

What is general principle? Here are a few examples:

• Owning up to being wrong about something with zero expectation of forgiveness, reputation repair, salvaged relationship, etc.
• Doing something kind for someone for the sake of doing it. Not with expectation of being repaid or boosting your social “optics”.
• Understanding the difference between likeability and respect. It’s possible to still respect someone even though you don’t like them.

I notice women generally are far more self intersted then men when it comes to the above. I believe it’s partially due to biology / evolution. There was a time in history had to be more selfish then men for survival purposes.

But now this behavior is no longer necessary in the modern civilization. But women (generally) don’t want to give it up.

[queenofcardio]

It's so attractive when someone can handle their emotions and not react negatively to situations where it's not worth it.

​People who still keep going even when everything is going against them are inspiring.

[Account]

If they have empathy. It is considered both a trait and a skill since it can be acquired and trained through experience. Also emotional regulation.

[Danny_dan92]

Agreed

[Iron_Man]

Cooking Fancy Dinners

[exitseven]

Good in bed