Do you like it when you manage to get under peoples skin?

[Kain6th]

You've found a way to really get to someone and hurt them or make them angry. Do you like knowing that you can do that to a person?

Why or why not?

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If you knew how to get under peoples skin would you do it just so you could win an argument?

[Anonymous]

That's my favorite game. That & mind games!

If it's a friend & we agree to disagree that's fine. If I don't like you I will get under your skin & in your mind.

I love to do this to people that are rude or unreasonable. I have many tricks. I'll only tell you one. I tell them to back up a little your breath stinks.

I will continue to agitate them by twisting their words & asking them if their stupid.

I get satisfaction out of knowing that I ruined their day & put them in a bad mood. It puts me in a good mood knowing that I won the battle of words & manipulated them.

YES I will do it to win an argument if they are not a close friend.

[Phoenix1991]

Nope, I'm like the devil , I sticky note each flaw/ achilles heel I learn about people, then when its time to defend myself, ...you kind of the get the picture.

I don't like hurting people, I believe in peace/harmony.

"Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary"

[Freetobe007]

Getting nder people's skin used to really give me such a sick satisfaction. I was a master at it. For me, I was too good at it to a point where I would burn bridges with people. I looked around and observed some irreversible damage I had caused and felt like such an ugly being. I don't like making people feel like sh*t. Even when I get mad, in the moment, I aim to make them feel terrible. It's something I'm working on. My drug of choice I guess.

Anyway, no I don't like knowing that I can do that to a person because the bond and connection we once had never seems to be the same...well what's left of it :(

[Anonymous]

If they didn't do anything bad to me I won't make them feel so.I always be good to people that good to me.

Yes I like it when I able to get into their weakness,for the people who have done something really bad to me.Im sorry that I have to admit I'm cruel to some people who deserve it.

Im just a human being but its not like I willing to hit or kill them tho.I still have mercy and to make me reach this level he/she would have to do something super bad to me because I won't easily mad on something silly like arguing over the internet lol.

[queenofpeen]

Ugh I don't like doing it and I absolutely HATE it when people do it to me. The fact that they're doing something just to annoy me is 100 times more annoying than whatever it is that they're doing (does that make sense?). Reminds me of my mom. She goes way out of her way just to irritate me, and the only reason it works is because I think it's so stupid to do that.

Rant over :P

[Stacyzee]

It is always an advantage to know someones weak point. Depending how angry I am at the person or how much they anger me of course it makes me feel good.

[Kain6th]

Would you use that to win an argument?

[Stacyzee]

Haha no. Arguments to me are more about proving my point rather than getting under someone's skin.

[elements]

No. I don't thrive off causing other people any kind of pain/frustration. I'd probably shoot myself in the foot if I ever became like that.

[Kain6th]

Pay attention to this question, I bet there are a few who do like that. :-P

[elements]

I'm sure there are. I do my best to avoid people like that. That slightly sadistic trait doesn't appeal to me at all. :P

[Anonymous]

Not with most people, but if someone is verbally or physically attacking and demeaning me, I don't have any problem exploiting weaknesses and using them against them. I'm not going to care about their feelings. It does make me feel better to fight back and knock them down a level, and if that makes me a bad person then so be it. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

I would not use knowing how to get under someone's skin to win an argument, this is for more serious things.

[Deft_maiden]

Not at all. I could do it easily as I can figure out someone's buttons quickly. But it is not a sport I enjoy.

[goflipaburger]

I only like knowing so I can avoid it at all costs :P

[Black_Swan_12]

I don't start anything with anyone but if they do/say something extreme and make it personal, I can def. get under their skin without even trying

[Xx_DRE_xX]

I mean it's nice but, I'm a better man not to use a person's weakness. Unless they do the same of course.

[Anonymous]

No I don't really enjoy being a bitch like that but if someone starts it I surely will continue it

[Anonymous]

The question is do you?

[Kain6th]

Uhhh no I don't now you? lol

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. But people will take things offensively too often and they missinterpret my intentions.

[Kain6th]

Example?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm don't sugar coat my answers. I say what is on my mind too often, not to hurt anybody but simply for the purpose of telling them what I believe, like stacy said proving my point. I like to argue. I expect people to be able to handle the truth but most people on here and all across the internet are not used to that point blank attitude.

[Opinion Owner]

and before you call me out on it, by truth, I mean my opinion of course ;).

[Kain6th]

Why be anon though? Have you been harassed by people who got offended?

[Opinion Owner]

Because it's easier to be more honest that way for me. It's the best method to detach yourself from the community that has formed during the last year. A visible profile gives someone a certain personality and I feel like that would force me into a box.

[Opinion Owner]

link The anon girl that complained about being followed a lot said it best "I usually answer anonymously to give a fair and just view, independent of people's knowledge and impression of me. When we know who is answering that question, there is an occasional biasness or inclination of favortism or hatred toward the answer because of the answerer itself. "

[Kain6th]

You can still know people though, so you still might become biased positively or negatively towards the person.

[Kain6th]

Even if they don't know who you are.

[Opinion Owner]

I am aware of that, but that's why she said it, because we are guilty of the same thing. I have formed my opinions about some of the frequent users on here. Most of the questions I answer from them are those seeking opinions not really advice. There are times when I want my advice to differ from my personal opinions.