What are signs a female friend is falling for you?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend that is getting closer and closer to me: communication and kind of telling me that her parent wanted to know if I have feelings for her...? Anyway, what are sure signs that a female friend is falling for a guy? Like actions I guess. by the way I don't know her parents..

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I guess what I'm trying to do is find out is if she does have feelings for me, and if she does, gauge how strong they may be at this point so I know what I should or should not do

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yesterday we went out had fun...and her boobs were pressed against me the whole time? I'm guessing this is a strong indicator

[Anonymous]

(1) She's talking to her parents about you = you're either a REALLY close friend or a potential BF.

(2) Look at her eyes -- is she watching you? What is she looking at when you are talking to her. If she's looking back and forth from your eyes to your mouth = She wants to kiss you. If she's just looking you straight in the eye = you're a close friend and she's listening to you.

(3) Look at her "at rest" body movements --> If she's positioned in a way that's leaning towards you = she likes you and is at attention for you. If her body is pointed away from you, then she's trying to ignore you at some level or is not fully interested.

There's more along these lines. It's fairly easy to sort out if a girl likes you...

[Asker]

She does both eye gazes. Somehow I think she lied about her mother wanting to know if I had feelings just so that I wouldn't think it was her wanting to know. I can't read her body movements well because she appears normal but whenever we go somewhere I usually hold her hand and she lets it happen. sometimes the way she looks at me is almost like a look that you would see in a romance movie (sounds stupid I know). but I find it hard to read her. by the way she mentioned that mayb in the future we could

[Asker]

give a relationship a try. We get along and we have shared some dark secrets and items we borrow from each other. But her body language is hard to read. All I know is when I hug her she holds on to me for a while and rubs my back...idk

[Asker]

one other major thing I forgot is her always including me into future things: o you haven't seen those movies, we have a lot to watch, or, I would love to see that type of weather with you, etc. Thing is that I like her but I don't want to mess it up or make a mistake

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm. The hand-holding is usually an indicator that she feels really comfortable and close to you. I used to have a friend who held my hand and abruptly stopped one afternoon when I automatically reached for his hand and yelled at me that people thought we were an item. The public assumption (when people see you holding hands) is that you're "with" the person.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, the thing about her mom might have been a slight exaggeration of the truth.

[Opinion Owner]

Just read your update, lol. Told you it was easy to figure out...

[Asker]

yeah I c. however, we played a game together over the internet and she got mad at me because she lost and signed off without saying a word...and still hasn't called me even tho I texted sorry for beating her on the game? wtf

[Opinion Owner]

Yikes! I clicked the wrong button and might have deleted something on here. Sorry!

Don't take each action too seriously...

[Asker]

lol you deleted my comment

[Opinion Owner]

I'm so sorry! "Submit Comment" and "Remove" shouldn't be on the same side. It was a good comment too. I was trying to answer it. :,(

[Asker]

lol its OK but at least I figured some of her out lol. still haven't heard from her I guess she's mad about the game beatdown from last night lol

[Opinion Owner]

Question Asker: lol its OK but at least I figured some of her out lol. still haven't heard from her I guess she's mad about the game beatdown from last night lol.

I totally did it again! At least this time I was able to salvage your comment. I should stop while I'm ahead! I was going to say: Most people would be a little sore after losing, but if she's a really sore loser, best to know about that sort of thing now.

I'm afraid to answer any more questions today, lol!

[Asker]

lol yeah you have to b careful. I'll let her cool off. I'm sure she will contact me soon anyway

[Opinion Owner]

:-)

[Baby-Gurl]

She probably really likes her if her parents are wondering if you are interested in her. Your able to tell that a female friend is falling for you by the way she talks to with extra attention and laughs at all of your jokes and also the way she treats you are addresses. Besides constantly flirting and wanting to hang out with you those are some small signs that a friend could be interested.

[Asker]

idk whenever we are around each other I usually tell her how special she is to me otr whatnot. I just notice that there is some type of hidden feeling, like something she wants to say but cannot. I can feel some type of tension and the silent moments after we hug and stare at each other ,but still holding each other. Whenever we are going somewhere I sometimes hold my hand out and she takes it as we walk...i just don't know what type of friendship this is

[Baby-Gurl]

It's a very flirtatious relationship that you two have. She probably really likes but doesn't know how you will react to her feelings towards her. Are you into her at all or do you just want to be friends?

[Asker]

in love lol

[Baby-Gurl]

haha, then I would just go for it lolz because I think that she is into you

[themastaplan]

dude she likes you, a lot...you haven't even met her parents and they know about you - that's pretty big man

i'd say take it slow, see where things go...maybe ask her if she wants to go out to dinner sometime - take note at how she dresses, is she classy aka trying to impress you, does she play with her hair often at the table aka she's trying to get your attention and/or nervous, does she laugh at the funny or stupid things you say aka she's trying to let you know she finds you funny even if no one else does...

maybe go on a walk with her? ask her what her goals are, if she has any crush's - maybe she'll come out and be like yes you! lol

go with the flow my man, what's meant to be will be

[Asker]

well I'm going up north for Christmas (florida here where I am now), she met me at the university and gave me nice thermal jacket (father's lol) and we talked or whatever (joked around). Talking about issues that I have presently and problems she has as well. I noticed tho that when I hugged her to say bye that she ends up giving me this eye stare that looks like a sad/heartmelting look? and we just held hands and looked at each other for a bit and left...im bad with signals man

[themastaplan]

im curious as to who and why they gave me a thumbs down lol, wtf?

anyways, don't OVER analyze...youre thinking WAY TOO in depth about everythign she does...just go with it, go out with her one night, have some drinks, go dancing, touch faces and look at one another...then go in for a kiss...if it fails then you'll know...i somehow doubt it will