He REALLY likes me but he has a girlfriend at the same time?

[Miss1993]

Ok. there's this guy . but he has a gf. On msn , its like he flirts a lot , but since he has a girlfriend, I'm kinda sending him alerts 'bout saying '' hey , back off mister ! you got a gf. ''

But is it ok to kinda like him , and playing hard to get with a guy who has a gf?

The other day, on msn , he once asked me '' what do you want from me ? Answer that ! :) ''

Is it like if he wanted me to answer '' Oh , I would like to go out , but you have a girl ... '' ?

But I anwered : I just want a kind friendship relationship with you.

So he said : '' ok then . Lets start over :) ''

I said to myself : '' OMG ... ''

Sometimes he says to me : '' If I wasn't with my girlfriend , I would be yours. ''

And one time , he asked me '' If I wasn't with my gf, would you have sex with me ? Because, I would ... ''

That's not all . He told me the other day '' Did you tell anybody about what is happening between us ? '' And I said : '' what ? Would it mind if I told someone ? '' And he said : '' No . Honestly, I don't care ... ''

I thought about what he said about not caring that if I told someone...but ... he has a gilfriend ! Would he think that if I would have told somebody about what is happening between us, the people to whome I would told them could know his girlfriend and tell her that he is flirting with me ?

OMG . Help me you guys. I don't know what to do. Is a player? Or does he really like me ? 0r what ?

Thanks :)

[ArizonaHighways]

I would suggest you not start a habit of flirting or even considering guys that are in relationships. If I were you, I would write a clear message telling him my feelings for him (do you really have any or just like the attention?), but also that I will not be continuing this flirtation as long as he has a girlfriend. There isn't any way for you to know if he really likes you or is simply a immature, insecure a**hole. So. Be firm. If you were in a relationship with a guy and another girl was constantly flirting and encouraging him behind your back, how would you feel? You owe his girlfriend the same courtesy...even if you don't know her. Honestly, I don't think this guy is worth much if he can't even be honest and respectful of her feelings...or if he is just intentionally messing with yours. Then again, he might just have some growing up to do and that is innocent enough. Give him a chance to make a final decision, but don't be a part of any more games.

[xxangel1990xx]

he sounds like a real player to me. Me and my friend are both going through similar things to this at the moment-it seems like we keep falling for the wrong guys. You should tell him to dump her if he wants to go out with you and if he doesn't want to go out with you then he should stop all this rubbish he's talking through msn. I really don't understand why guys do this-why go out with someone if you want to go out with someone else? its a complete mystery to me!

[girls-like-boys]

well I kinda have the same problem my friend has had a girlfriend for about 2 years. but he still flirts with me all the time... ide have to know your guy to be able to totally help...cause my friend is not a player at all not even close. so you never know what he is thinking. jus test him a little bit more and never hide what your feeling

[Upopads]

He REALLY likes me but he has a girlfriend at the same time?

I stopped reading here.

If he has a girlfriend then he shouldn't be messing around with you. I wouldn't.

[champ]

a lot guys have to find someone else before they can leave a relationship. So maybe he is trying to find someone else? Why don't you ask him about him and his girlfriends relationship. If he answers negatively then you know he's not happy. If he responds positively he's just a dog. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

seriously. he sounds like a player.

a guy with a gf, has a girlfriend and if it's not you, then you aren't his gf

he is showing his true character by 'cheating' on his girlfriend like this.

how would you feel if you were her?

[Miss1993]

Yeah that's true...

Thanks for the answer =)

[ALWAYSclassy]

He is a player for the simple fact that he has a girlfriend. You can't help your feelings but you can control your actions.