He has a girlfriend but he really likes me?

[Anonymous]

So I've known this guy for around a month. We work together. Started off as friends, chatting occasionally, but that very quickly turned into flirting. Honestly, he's really attractive. He kept saying how much he likes me and how he wants to spend time with me etc. Then one day we met up on a day off, and things escalated very quickly. Before I knew it, we were having sex. It felt great and I was so happy (so was he). We spend the rest of the day together at the beach and we chatted for hours about life. It felt so nice having someone who was taking an interest in me. But then... I got home and we were on the phone, and he told me he wanted to take things slowly because HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. I'm not a slut/whore, so if I'd known this from the start there is no way in hell I would have kissed him or had sex with him. I felt so sick and anxious. And now I'm in such a massive dilemma because he keeps telling me he likes me a lot and finds me attractive and that he wants to continue our "relationship". He also said that he is considering breaking up with his girlfriend (although this hasn't happened...) I just don't know what to do. Aside from the fact he is taken, I really do like him. If he was single I would definitely be trying to have a relationship with him. But he has a girlfriend who he is very indecisive about breaking up with. Need advice please! And try to keep things nice... I'm such a self conscious and anxious mess right now...

[Mega_illuminati]

That's really fucked up of him. And tbh, I don't really think he actually cares about you, he may just be trying to get into your pants. Otherwise he would have told about his girlfriend earlier. I would suggest try to keep away, and tell him that you can't be a person someone cheats on their SO with. Ask him to do whatever he wants, but to leave you alone. And if he has the guts to breakup with his girlfriend, and properly pursue you again, he should do so.

In all, I do not think that this could lead to anything good. Cheaters normally always cheat again. Who is stopping him to cheat on you later if he wants?

[outside_Toronto]

this is retarded... he doesn't wanna spend that much time with you if he isn't dumping his girlfriend.

Fast forward months from now when you're his girlfriend; he'll be talking to some other girl.

Give your head a shake and GTFO

[TheAwkwardTeen]

If he wasn’t loyal to her what makes you think he’ll be loyal to you! If he liked you so much he’d care about you’re feelings enough... to tell you he was in a relationship before having Sex with you. YOU DESERVE BETTER LOVE!!!

[Anonymous]

Leave him alone. He broke the trust of his girlfriend and he broke your trust by not telling you that he had a girlfriend before you had sex. Even if he breaks up with his girlfriend he hasn't shown himself to be trustworthy.

[needhelp777]

Leave him alone and u need to tell his girlfriend what happened

[Iron_Man]

That guy was cheating on his girlfriend and you don't think he'll cheat on you down the road get rid of him

[Anonymous]

Why do women like guys who are clearly not good people I don’t understand this