My boyfriend called me a perv?

[Anonymous]

and NOT in a joking way. It hurt my feelings and I told him that, but he still says I am,cos he says I read and watch perv stuff :(

[Xavierz]

What's wrong about being perverted? Don't feel bad, just tell him you're human and to lighten up a little. Seriously, he's a guy, chances are he's just as bad if not worse than you!

[Asker]

:( he says I am immoral and that his family would get offended by the stuff I watch. :( he won't lighten up, I tried not to take it as serious,but he IS serious.

[Xavierz]

I'm sorry to hear that. Setting aside his family, what are his views on the matter, Is he TOTALLY against you reading/watching provocative stuff?

[Asker]

I watched the Hangover and he got totally pissed.

[Xavierz]

Well, we've established he needs to lighten up for sure. The Hangover 1&2 was great, haha.

On a more serious note, maybe his religious/personal views are just too different from your own. I think, if you could somehow show him that this kind of stuff you watch isn't all that bad, and mostly for the sake of entertainment; he might even join in on the fun.

His family is another story though, pick and choose your battles wisely.

[Asker]

thanks for the answer. and in reality I am not that much different than he is,i just take things easier a bit. BUT what bothers me is him calling me a perv. That's the only thing.

[Xavierz]

A small blemish on an otherwise good relationship. I know you've already talked to him about it, but I'm sure if you make a point out of it that its really bothering you, he'll cut back or stop saying it altogether.

Hope it all works out for the both of you. Happy New Year in advanced.

[Asker]

Thanks, and to You too. and NO he won't stop, because he has to be always right :) but thanks anyway

[taster]

He needs to be careful about slinging sh*t...how does he define "perv"? I might well think that he is a perv..and vice versa...):

[jaclynngage69]

my boyfriend call me a perve all the time I wouldn't be too worried about it. there's nothing wrong with being a perv it makes life so much more interesting

[Asker]

i bet he doesn't try to make you feel bad with it, he only says it in a joking way.

[onlyhis]

My boyfriend calls me a perv and means it.. he's also a perv but just doesn't say the things i say, i also dont take everything so personal.. come back with saying only yours after he calls you a perv, see his response, some men just aren't vocal about sexual things

[Nicefuture]

Tell him that he is creepy/Pig/Monkey or whatever you know,anything.

[Anonymous]

I wish my girl was a perv

[Asker]

ppl always wish for what they don't have, do they