Girls, do you like the feeling of being 'taken care of' by your man?

[Robotic]

Is that something most girls want out of their man? I've always wondered this.

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+1 y

Also say why you do or not.

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+1 y

Follow up question: how do you interpret 'being taken care of'? what should a man do to get you to feel like that?

[craZy_4_musiC_o0]

yes. at least I do. being protected by a man and knowing you're safe around him - best feeling in the world! well, almost at least...anyways, you shouldn't smother a girl though! I mean, let her try herself first and then step in when you see the need for it. we want to know we can always fall back on you, have a safe haven with you and you will help us out when you can and if we need it. we don't particularly like to be the constant damsel in distress though. we want to know we can do some things ourselves. but it's nice to have you stand next to us when we can't open the jar of peanut butter :-)

[Anonymous]

Definitely like being taken care of by my bf... and by taken care of I mean hugs, cuddling and having someone to talk to about anything or just vent and hear me out.

[calialltheway1993]

It's safe to assume that it's what every girl wants.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, almost that's everything a girl wants from a guy, at least for me.

Why? It's a female instinct, we are emotional creatures we like to feel protected by our man or loved and safe. :)

[Robotic]

how do you interpret 'being taken care of'? what should a man do to get you to feel like that?

[Opinion Owner]

There are many things men can do and make me feel like that. Sometimes just a simple thing like asking about me, showing how he sincerely cares about me, how he understand how I feel and try to help me and protect me if I'm in a problem. Sometimes just a simple hug can makes me feel I'm protected and safe.

Actually there're many things guys can do to make me feel like that. :)

[BarbaraP]

I would want that, honestly. We might not admit it, but every girl likes that.

Of course it should be "at a normal level" and not from every side.

[Robotic]

Why do girls want that?

[BarbaraP]

I think it's just... nature! I mean, wouldn't it make you feel good knowing you're protecting your woman?

[Standingpretty]

Yes, it's great. I like security in a relationship and a hard worker.

[Robotic]

how do you interpret 'being taken care of'? what should a man do to get you to feel like that?

[Standingpretty]

I take as meaning all forms:Emotionally, financially, physically. I feel like it's great when a guy works to improve both of your lifes together and especially when you're the top of his list.

[ImperfectDVM]

Yes, I do.

Security or feeling safe and comfortable around a guy is a must for me.

[ImperfectDVM]

When I mean taken care of, I mean a guy who will be there if something happens.

[Robotic]

Example?

[ImperfectDVM]

Example- Let's say I got so sick, I couldn't go to work. Would he care for me or would he leave me?

Example- Let's say I got attacked while he was there? Would he stand there or stand up for me?

I can handle myself, but I need help too. I want a man who can be there, when I can't be there for myself.

[Anonymous]

definitely. I feel like that is a huge part of what a relationship is- two people loving and caring for each other. I love the feeling of a guy protecting and taking care of me

[electromagnetic]

Yup. A sense of belonging.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because it makes me feel adored by him.

[Opinion Owner]

@update: By asking how I feel, take me to places, kiss me, hug me, stuff like that.

[Catie101]

yes.

[Robotic]

Why?

[Catie101]

i like to feel safe, I like to feel important, and though I like a little independence, I don't always want to have to rely on myself. I'm a very anxious person and it helps to have someone there who makes me feel at ease.

[Robotic]

how do you interpret 'being taken care of'? what should a man do to get you to feel like that?

[Catie101]

give me his jacket if I'm cold, open doors for me, always be there to listen and hold me when I need him, hold my hand or put his arm around me, hug me tightly, etc.

[Anonymous]

see all the work we guys have to do?