Sounds like you need to just calmly tell her "hey, I kinda don't like you showing off your body to other guys".
However here are my stances on this issue: I have female cousins in Florida, and it is a state that is perpetually in swim suits. A belly button is nothing, especially if you've spent the day in your bikini top and a pair of shorts.
Also, several of my guy friends are actively involved as advice givers, however we are NOT romantically interested at all. If her guy friends had said that she should send that picture, to the three of them it would be the same as if it had been 3 girls.
I would say that if you had something to worry about a) There probably would have only been one guy and b) She probably would have been far more careful to make sure you didn't know he was there. If she didn't even think about it then there is NOTHING going on with her and either of them.
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ehhh I don't like LDR's
i would be annoyed too makes me wonder what else he's doing with other girls...
dude, it was her belly button... It is not like she was f***ing the guys or showing them her breast.
Sounds like it's not the type of chick you want. And FYI, long distance relationships don't work if there is no solid foundation. And doesn't sound like you guys have a good solid foundation.
It's a belly button. Get over it. If she goes to the beach, thousands of people will see it.
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1935 called, it want's it's sense of decency back. A don't see how a belly button picture is a problem at all. Sounds like you are overly insecure in the relationship.
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