Looks wise and personality, what's your dream girl and are you ones of those guys that think they will never get the girl?
What type of girls do "nerdy" guys go for?
You can expect a much larger variety of girl interests from nerdy guys because there is a giant variety of nerdy people. My person preference have been:
1: Physical Appearance: I want someone who looks UNIQUE. The looking unique is probably the most important part of the physical appearance to me. Also for looks, I generally like light skin, maybe even to the point of pale. Feature being small are good. For accessories, she wears the cutest thing she can wear, an awesome set of glasses. No earrings, bracelets, or necklaces can match a good set of glasses. For body, I'd want her to be thin, but not to the point where she looks unhealthy. Breast size for me follows the rule of, able to tell they exist, but small is good.
2: Personality: I'd want someone who did not follow gender stereotypes. I would be able to trust her with almost anything, and we could have giant nerdy conversations about many things (Technology, Games, Music, Art). She would care much more for the emotional side of the relationship than anything physical. She'd also find improving ones own flaws important. And most of all she'd have EMPATHY. I fell empathy is one of the most important parts of a persons personality, and so many people lack it.
3: Life Style: She would be fine with me having friends that are girls because she trusts me, and the same would be true for her for the same reasons. She'd have an interest in charity work, and we would spend more time together than most other people, but we also give each other space. She would be committed to being educated, and expects to have a career once she graduates. She also keeps her room in some semblance of being clean. She'd also have many hobbies of her own, and be highly independent.
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Some of the examples given seem...unrealistic or comicbook-ish
My brother and I love Zooey Deschanel
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and Ellen Page.
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Looks-wise:
-Small "features". Just a personal preference. Don't know what society's obsession with big boobs/butt is.
-Doesn't tan. If you're white, you're white. Black, you're black. I love a really light complexion.
-Emphasize softness and sensitivity/sensuality. Ditzy and "slutty" usually don't fly.
Personality-wise:
-Reciprocating. Girls can have their own way of caring for guys.
-Direct, not abstract and game-playing. (emotional games, anyway. (; )
-She has to be a big geeky or dorky herself. It's so much more fun than her giving you a look like she expects you to "mature" (mature by HER standards, that is.)
well, in the movies they go for the popular girl :0
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I, being the slight nerd I am, always look for the girls who are NICE. Not those drop dead beautiful ones who treat everyone like dirt(cheerleaders).
Nerds lack self confidence, so it helps if the girl makes the moves more often.
Actually, I'm almost 18, and the first girl I asked out was a few months ago. She was always nice to me, mostly because I helped her in Algebra 2, and I was always sweet to her. Strangely enough, she is beautiful. I wasn't expecting her to say yes, but she did. Of course, she had to ask me to go to a football game and dance with her to keep a stalker away, but hey, she asked, so I was MORE than happy to help. (She made the moves)
She broke up with me, but told me that I need to try again with her when I can actually get to see her more, and when I'm not tethered to a legal guardian. Yes... She broke up with me, I get that I shouldn't like that, and I don't. But she basically gave me a rain check. And we still hang out together at lunch and whenever we can, so she's probably me closest friend. I'll still do anything for her.
So...
The trick is to be nice. Don't worry about attracting nerds with your mountains of makeup or stuffed bra. Just treat them like you would want yourself treated. -
Do I think I will never get her: No. Have in the past. Plan to in the future
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On personality: smart and sense of humor are probably bigger deals than for non-nerdy guys but for the most part, this is the same as the average non-asshole guy. That is kind, loving, supportive, at least willing to feign interest in my shit.
On looks: This is a bit different. I have a definite preference for Scene/Emo girls though I am hardcore normcore myself. I attribute this to the fact that mainstream standards mean nothing to me and as such a pure expression of beauty/sensuality is overwhelmingly attractive to me. Obviously, I don't consider this some kind of standard, as I don't meet it myself, but that does not stop me from acknowledging awesomeness when I see it.
I would never say "you look so much better without makeup" because that is stupid lying bullshit. Nor, would I say that a girl who comes off as "one of the guys" is in some inane way more attractive than a girl in 4 inch heels and a tight dress. I think this is just intellectual honesty combined with not being intimidated by things that you may not understand. And, I think nerdy guys - potentially - have an advantage here. - 737 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
Girl that looks like this:
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But likes video games and nerdy sh*t.
Which is pretty much like trying to find a unicorn.
To answer your other question, I'll probably never get her cause I'll never meet her, plus, she probably would have a boyfriend by then (how could she not?) On the same hand though, it's not like I wouldn't try, I'm not shy and I'm perfectly confident.
All around though? I don't worry about getting a girlfriend or being in a relationship, if this girl comes she comes, if not, I don't seek them out or worry about it. I'm more worried about accomplishing my goals than anything else. - 345 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
the "perfect" dream girl for me.
- someone who's sweet and likes to be close to their boy friend.
- enjoys video games and anime.
- I'm only 5'1 so I would like someone close to the same height or a bit taller.
- average weight, there about.
- long curly read hair.
- someone that isn't controlling or too needy.
- non smoker and non drinker. I don't smoke and think recreation drugs are a waste of money.
- doesn't want a dog. I can't stand dogs and will never own one.
- sexually active (I won't go into detail)
- someone who accepts me for me and doesn't try to change who I am. I'll do the same for her.
- age 20-29 maybe 30. I might go outside this age range but it would really have to depend on how much I like her.
I doubt there's a girl that follows All of these points but if there is she would be perfect for me. -
Well I can't speak on behalf of all nerds because like every other group of people we are also individuals. So, I'm going to speak for myself.
Looks wise: I usually go for a kind of a girl next door look and like Moloch said for above average, like everyone else. I don't like too much make up and I don't like too skinny like Hollywood tries to suggest.
Personality: Since I'm kind of shy and quiet myself, I usually get attracted to girls who are social and like to talk a lot, curious girls. Also I like warmth, kindness and honesty and I like the girl to be even a little smart/intelligent so I can really talk to them about anything. Oh and I really don't care if the girl likes computers and video games as long as she understands that I do.
"and are you ones of those guys that think they will never get the girl?" Yes, kind of, but that's because I've never gotten the girl. -
Oh come on...just because a guy is a nerd doesn't mean he doesn't have the same basic urges as every other guy. His preferences can be just as wide spread too. People aren't born nerds, they become one. So they still grow up like normal boys and girls.
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Nerdy guys like a lot of different looking girls so can't really help there but your cute so you shouldn't have a problem.
I'm a nerd
What I like is just a girl who is into what I am into. I like Xbox and anime, if you like either or both then your worth dating in my book. Beautiful girls that are nerds are the sexiest thing on the planet. - 673 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
This really depends on a couple things: his experience with women, his physical appearance, his hobbies, his social skills, and how much money he makes.
Looks wise: Can be anything, as long as she's not repulsive. Though they do go for for above average, like everyone else.
Personality: Bubbly and warm for girlfriend. Whatever, for hook up, but then it depends on his personality and his patience. -
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The perfect girl look wise: link Personality wise someone who I can get along with and who understands me.
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go to coldsplay conventions or comicon conventions, you find plenty there.
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Depends on the guy. They are attracted to the same girls as everyone else. I guess they only they all go for are girls that accept their nerdiness.
If you or your friend (or whoever you are asking for) wants one, you can get one. -
Looks wise I like all types of girls. Personality wise, someone I can get along with that accepts me for who I am and what I like.
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i'm one of those guys that think will never get the girl
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They don't go for girls hahaha.
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What ever they can get?
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Lara Croft.
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