Do goth guys ever like girls that are not goth?

[Anonymous]

I'm really into goth guys, but I'm not goth and I was wondering if there's any goth guys out there that would date a girl if she isn't goth.

[Spikey]

I'm "Goth" I suppose, maybe more of a black leather fetish freak than Goth proper but the labels aren't always on spot or are just hair splitting a series of styles that have their origin in punk or BDSM aesthetics. Anyway, I personally can't stand 99% of the Goth girls I've encountered lol. I think it's just that a lot of them are kinda awkward or shy as where I'm outgoing and aggressive. Plus the caked on makeup makes it hard to tell who you might actually be waking up next to in the morning. Pencil skirt preppy girls get me pretty hot honestly, more fun to tie up and run if ya git my drift.
I wear a lot of bondage gear as fashion accessories and I sport full leather get ups covered in spikes as well as industrial patches, eyeliner occasionally. I kinda straddle the fence with it all but most goths and punks accept me as being a part of the fold so whatever. In any case I've had far more fun with non Goth girls than the other so I gravitate towards them by default. So yes, in answer to your question, some of us do, some of us prefer non Goth even.

[Konnour]

There is really no such thing as "goth guy"

Gothic style is basically exclusive to girls. Corsets, piercings, laced dresses, dramatic make-up, and so on.

If a guy may claim to be "a goth" he's most likely just an emo or something.

Anyway, in my opinion the style should not be an obstacle to attraction, anyone who might turn down a hottie only because "she doesn't match my style" is a moron.

..I personally like girlie girls - really girlie ones, who wear short skirts, high heels, bright/pink clothes, who got long hair, and so on.

Does it mean that I should dress in pink clothes and wear heels? Of course not!

[kheserthorpe]

There used to be a goth male style. Though they were outnumbered by goth girls. When I was young, goth girls often ended up dating more industrial fan guys, there was enough overlap in taste and it created gender parity.

[Konnour]

Maybe, but nothing I'm aware of. As I know, Gothic style is girls-only.

[GothAncap]

Do you realize that there are different styles of Goth? Because I'm a Goth guy (who likes Goth girls)

[theDailyDazzle]

Yes they do! I know guys whe purposely dressed that way to get girls. It absolutely worked!

[Intothevoid666]

Im a goth guy I wouldn’t rule out anyone automatically it’s just that I really don’t think that non goth girls are going to find me to be totally compatible with me once they totally know me tbh but I don't know. Goth guys by and large are kinda insane same as goth women I’m not sure if you’ve realized that yet lol.

[Isceenekid]

Yeah, we do. But we think that Goth girls are more into our feelings because they like to hide themselves and hardly talk. My girlfriend isn't Goth. But she likes guys that look like scene. Hope that answers your question.

[DutchAtheist]

She looks kinda goth to me.

[Sceprent]

Yeah I definitely would though I orefer the former. There’s simply not a lot of that. But if not Goth having some cool music tastes helps for sure. Or being into some Horror things on the side. I love your average gym girl too though so definitely.

[Nerros]

I would. In fact, I greatly prefer otaku, seeing as I also love anime. Nevertheless, every one of us have our own opinion. I'm sure there are some that would only date goth girls.

[edgyfox]

I was a Goth in my teens and early 20s. Fun times back than.

[heavymetalbrotha]

personally rarely its just what i go for and as far as the look its just a personal turn on :p