Girl wants to introduce me to her parents??

[Anonymous]

So I met this girl because my mom is good friends with her mom and they eventually got us to meet... she is very conservative and humble but still likes to have fun and go out drinking etc.

I've told her through texts that I like her and she has sometimes told me as well how the fact that I'm unique and respectful and stuff like that has made her like me...

She went away on vacation for 3 weeks and now that she's back I invited her out but instead she said if I wanted to go out to dinner with her, her mom, and my mom so we can all talk and I can meet her mom... she also told me that for her is very important to get to know someone real well and not rush into anything because she does not wants to be played with...

Does she wants something serious with me?

Because on her Facebook page she put that she was enjoying her single life... so I'm confused...

[stillagoodgirl]

Maybe she wants her parents to know the set up went well

[Asker]

Set up? So you think she has no interest in me?

[prophecy]

you're dating for how long?

[Asker]

I have only gone out with her twice on dates before she went away on vacation and now she's back so this "dinner" with the moms would be date #3

[Asker]

She also said she wants me to meet her mom so that it won't be ackward when she invites me over to her place because it seems to wants to make dinner for me sometime and all these things... and wants to go activities with me like go to the park to walk and chat or work out in the same gym together and things like that...

[prophecy]

is she insane?

first of all you don't need your mom around to get to know someone well. it's actually the other way around because you don't act the same way around parents like you do otherwise. complete nonsense.

and secondly, let me bring you up to speed with reality here, buddy; you don't wanna be involved with a girl who is that "close" with her mother. problem, problems, problems. because you're not just dating her, oh no, you're dating both of them - daughter and her mom.

[prophecy]

how old is she anyway?

[prophecy]

ok I can understand that what she's saying, but so soon? a dinner with her mother? on a third "date"? I mean you're not even in a serious relationship. if anything is awkward, THIS is what's awkward.

[Asker]

She's 22 and I'm 25 lol

I'm just wondering what's going on in this chick's head if she is even interested in me or wth is going on... they have a lot of money and so it seems her mom wants someone with a decent amount of cash as well for her daughter and that's where I come in according to her mom.

[prophecy]

maybe she is maybe she's not. you cannot tell that right now. too many factors. you'll see that rather soon - but not with her mother present.

look, I have similar experience - I make a "good" living if you know what I mean. and I stumbled upon "caring" mother who wants the best for her daughter. not just once. but twice. and again, believe me, you don't wanna be involved with a girl like that. even if she likes you, her mother is simply too involved in your relationship. it's too much.