How do you know how you rate on a scale of 1-10?

[Bhoot]

I know this is a very shallow question, but how do you know if your ugly, below average, average, above average or hot? are there certain things that could give you that indication?

(I am only asking because my self esteem is really bad and I need a boost and I don't know how to get a little confidence in myself?)

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+1 y

Thank you everybody on such great advice, ha ha I think the whole reason I ask this question and even question it myself is probably bcause I run with girls who are size 0 and I am size 2 ish so it pulls at my confidence. However, I do work out 5-6 days a week and I keep clean and dress nicely.

But I do agree and self esteem can be improved on working on all aspects of yourself rather than just focussing on one aspect and obsesisng about it :L

Thanks!

[hoodni99a]

First of all, you need to understand that everyone has a different opinion. Everyone is a different person, therefore, having different views on things, different things that turn them on, turn them off, what they find attractive, and what they think is ugly.One guy might think you are really hot, another might not think you're as sexy as the other guy does. Its all about personal preference. So there is no universal answer, everyone will say something different. Stop being low in confidence, as it will get you nowhere. I used to be low in confidence when I was younger, then got over it once I started to work on myself.

Confidence doesn't come from walking up to a mirror and telling yourself, "Im great, I'm great" to try to convince yourself like most people advocate. I believe that's the worst advice to give friends or family to help them improve. To become a confident person means to improve yourself, your skills, knowledge and actually work towards being the person youve always wanted. Work on your looks, try doing your makeup nicer, dressing cuter. Tricking yourself and lying to yourself will never work and will only keep yourself from growing--- give yourself a reason to feel confident; once you do, it will be engraved in you. I'm sure you're beautiful

[TwinkleTwilight]

I know its easier said than done, most girls have a low self esteem because society makes it that way. I don't think no one should be rated as everyone is beautiful in there own way. The majority of people who do not see you don't want in your life anyway they have not matured to know barbie does not exists! The people who do see it will love you for who are and see every part of you as beautiful! We (us girls) are the worst enemies of our self! Keep being you and see every part of beauty instead of thinking negatively of what you do not have and want. If it is something that you can try and get go get it, if not breath there are more people who think you are beautiful than your realize! ( if that's your picture now you should know you have nothing to worry about )

[Bhoot]

I think you hit the nail with this, I have always jsut strived to be perfect but its sexhasuting lately...i am sore everywhere from working out for hours an dhours everyday at the gym and the thing is, the people who matter to me don't really care how I look but I still maange to convince myself that I am not godo enough, and to make matters somewhat worse, my two best friends are both models so they ahve perfect size 0 figures and strutu around with their 6 ft tall selves and I just sit here

[agirlwhoneedshelp]

This scale that you are talking about is constructed individually within each person's mind. One person's 5 is another person's 10, and vice versa. You should be gauging yourself on how other people see you, but rather gain a sense of confidence that would have many people attracted to you for no other reason than personality and confidence (as they are far sexier than appearance to people who are ridiculously shallow and unrealistic). To gain confidence all you have to do is look in the mirror and tell yourself you are great and beautiful and eventually you will begin to believe it!

[Happy-Plum-Pants]

If when you get a boyfriend, it turns into this. (since it probably means he's jealous because you're so hot)...and yes, by the way, on one of your other questions I told you you were hot...why are you asking this now?

Girl: Babe delete her I don't like her

Boy: OK done babe :)

Girl: Don't go out

Boy: OK :)

Girl: Don't talk or text any girls besides me

Boy: OK baby :)

Boy: Delete him I don't like him

Girl: But I'd known him forever he's like a brother

Boy: Don't flirt with any guys babe

Girl: They're not flirting their just being nice

Boy: Don't add any guys please baby

Girl: But they add me ;o

[Racez]

Most of our ratings are based on the her face's beauty, her hair, how she dress, and how seductive or how beautiful she is over all.

The hottest girls (10) are described as having big boobs, long sexy legs, long hair, and her dress' sexiness. I think what a woman's wearing gives a lot of boost in the rating scale, especially if her outfit is sexually appealing. Some average/below average can be considered 9 or 10 if their dress is extremely sexually appealing to the eye.

[various]

Let me just say this: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

How many times have you come across people who are willing to rate themselves as perfect 10's but others refuse to believe it?

As long as you dress well, keep yourself active and look healthy and clean, you should be well on your way. The matter of how you rate on a scale of 1-10 depends on how others perceive you. Person A might think you're a 5, while Person B might think you're a 10.

You can't please everyone so you might as well please yourself. Do whatever makes you feel like a 10. If dying your hair a certain color, dressing a certain way, or doing your make-up a certain way makes you feel pretty than that's all you need to worry about.

[shumailkazimi]

these points varies from person to person...but one must be confident about his looks and the way he presents himself in front of others...because confidence is somethings that reflects on your face ...

don't feel insecure! every girl is pretty in their own way. Everyone has something special about them.. Just be yourself and your personality will shine through

[Anonymous]

Sites like hot or not can give you a clean no messing around determination of your looks... but I'll be honest, don't go there for an ego boost unless you're already sure you're super hot.

If you need an ego boost, the last thing you need is 1000 strangers rating you 3.5 out of 10.

[mid20sgirl86]

I don't think that site is always honest. I have a very high rating on there, but I'm ugly.

[Bhoot]

ow god, I could never pubicly ask somebody to rate me, that's horrifying!

[kartoos]

When people start to.point out sexiness in you!With me it's like I know I'm very beautiful yes beautiful :p but in the end we all have some plus and minus points!in order to stay confident you have to keep seeing the positive side of you!The day you'll stop giving sh*t about what people say or think is the day you'll overcome confidence issues!

[ihatework]

i don't know where you rate yourself but I'd rate you pretty damn high, you're hot.

[Bhoot]

haha thank you :)

[realistic]

the thing is I wouldn't rate myself, I am to busy doing everything in my power to improve myself overall whether it's my personality, or certain skills or hobby's of interests the point being I am going to be happy one way or another.

[Anonymous]

0 is extremely ugly, 5 is okay looking, and 10 is really hot. Of course these rating are very subjective, if me and my friends are talking about a girl, there's usually a debate about where exactly on this scale she would fall. In other words, one person may see you as better looking than the other. If your pics are real (I assume they are, lol), then you have nothing to worry about, no matter who you ask, I'm sure you'd be on the top half of that scale.

[voit3]

You know because you feel like rating yourself whatever you want. It's a made up scale, even more than IQ, done just for fun.

[maiez]

Usually if you're ugly its in the negatives, and hot is 8-10+.

0 ugly 5 average 10 hottest

[Anonymous]

Size 2? You're still tiny. There is no need at all for you to feel bad. I'm size 5 and people think I am thin. At least I hope I am.

[Anonymous]

I think the amount compliments maybe, or how often you're hit on. I myself am ugly.