Why does OkCupid seem so dead lately?

[Anonymous]

Sent 100ish messages in the past two days and like none looked at my profile. They usually look and just don't respond, but it's like no one is even noticing lately. odd

[Anonymous]

Girls on dating site like that get tons of messages every single hour.They will choose the one they are interested in.You need to be stand out more rather than sending messages like "hey cutie,hey pretty,can we have a chat,hey! You look so hot.

They probably receive the same messages every days from different guys.On dating site,you are also encouraged to approach average girls than the one who is attractive because obviously your change to get her respond is more.Other than that is all depends on your luck.Dating site has too much competition among males so you either get lucky or not.That's it.

[Asker]

I ask specific questions about their profiles... and make specific comments related to it

[Opinion Owner]

In that case I guess they were just not interested,or they are looking for something else,someone who fit the look that they want.I know how tough for a guy to be on dating site.My bro is also using one.Just keep trying and see if you can get lucky.

[Asker]

Which sites?

add me?

[Theguyoverthere]

They all seem like that. POF and match.com too.

I usually get a message from an overweight every so often but even those stopped coming.

I haven't sent many messages though. I usually don't need to. I don't normally because most of the time I get a reply and it doesn't show mutual interest back and the girl's message gives me the impression that she thinks she's on Facebook and not a dating site.

[Anonymous]

If you're even at the point where you'd send out that many messages, doesn't that tell you you're not cut out for online dating--or maybe the idea is just retarded?

Try meeting people in person. If you've sent out 100 messages over the past TWO DAYS then that says you're just not going anywhere with online.

Time to actually try face to face human contact, lmao.

[Asker]

How?

[MikeK]

Anyone with a penis is "not cut out for online dating." ;)

[blackkid4]

You have to keep up with the trends. Things change.

[MikeK]

LOL it's always been kind of dead for men...

[Asker]

Why

[MikeK]

The odds do not favor us ;)

[Asker]

About as many of them as there are us lol

[MikeK]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

girls to guys in life

[MikeK]

Actually, there's slightly MORE women than men in life, and yet - men experience FAR MORE difficulties in dating than women do... now why's that? ;)

[Asker]

106 men to women actually, but more women overall because they live longer and men die in wars and stuff.

[MikeK]

TRUE.