Questions: Girl's Behavior

I would say it's definitely men doing it here's why. The argument goes that women "objectify themselves by wearing revealing clothes. I mean what did they expect men to do". Well women wear revealing clothes because it's hot and/or they're proud of their bodies.

But here's what a lot of people tend to forget: just because you're proud of something about yourself doesn't mean that's all there is to you. Objectifying women isn't about admiring, embracing or celebrating the beauty of the female body. It's a myopic attitude where women are reduced to nothing more than something to look at (i. e. the root of the word objectifying; and object versus a being).

I have a deep voice for a girl, and I sm insecure about it. In voice chat online, whenever I speak there always comes this girl with a high pitched voice from no where and steals the spotlight because she knows she's more attractive than me. I can just have a normal conversation with someone and she will come in and grab the person I'm talking to attention. I feel like having an unattractive voice (deep) as a girl makes people not want to be around me. Literally every other girl I know has a normal or high pitched voice but I have a deep voice. I'm so insecure about it I hate it so much, and the worst part is that I can't change it. It would benefit me if I was male but I am female so it's a curse.