Guys, What does it mean to you when a girl gives u a light shoulder massage?

[Anonymous]

i was hanging with some guy friends, I'm a girl by the way, and i was talking about how my mom was a massage therapist and she taught me a few things. then i offered one of the guys ( also my crushhh ) a shoulder massage, which i did for about 5 minutes. what would u think if one of ur girl (space! ) friends did that to you?

[Anonymous]

It's IMPOSSIBLE as a guy to know what that meant.

Half of women would do it and say "how the hell does this idiot not know I'm trying to tell him I like him?"

And the other half are saying "how the hell does this idiot think I did that because I'm interested in him?".

And almost every guy is thinking "if I do ANYTHING I'm putting myself at risk of being accused of sexual harassment, sexual assault or who knows what."

[Guy13]

Thank you and no big deal. If it happens twice then might think about it.

[Anonymous]

It might mean something, or it might mean nothing at all.

Did he offer to return the favor?

[Asker]

i had to leave right after so no...

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve had friends rub my shoulders. Felt nice