Polls: Girl's Behavior

For the most part, I find them interesting. They rarely engage in worthless drama and gossip.

Do you think those girls are born like that or raised into a tomboy? My 18 year-old cousin is one. At a very early age, she had preference (I can't think of anyone teaching her that) towards trucks, huge lego constructions, airplane toys, firefighter action figure and used to play rough with the boys. If someone bought her a doll, she wouldn't play with it. She always had more guy friends too. This is her last year of HS and she wants to major in engineering.

To whatever extent you might consider a man "conservative" on a personal level, i ask the women of this app: are you attracted to more conservative men?

I talk to a lot of men online and it seems to me that the more conservative (sometimes self-referring as 'alpha') guys are the ones who are the loneliest and angriest.
No shade.
I'm just here to defer if that trend is a reality or if it's just chuds online leaving a bad taste in my mouth.

What's your opinion?

This question comes from a survey I did yesterday where a large percentage of the guys said that they are repulsed by girls who play hard to get.

(Ms Kim gave me the idea to ask this follow up question... thank you Ms Kim :) )

Here was yesterdays survey...

GIRLS, HAVE YOU EVER PLAYED "HARD TO GET"?

So if so many guys want nothing to do with girls who play hard to get, why is it then that the same guys will say that a girl that is "Easy To Get" is a slut? ... what am I missing?

I thought it was the girls that are suppose to be impossible to please? ... lol

Girls, what is your opinion on this topic please?

I thought we were the only ones that were suppose to be hard to figure out? ... lol

OK, don't lie and don't act surprised... you know what I'm talking about!

I think I am just about to give away some of our secrets with this question, aren't I? ... lol

Q: So, there's this guy that you are thinking you may like, but you're not so sure yet, what do you do?

A: You spur him on a little and try to get him to come on to you so you can get a feeling for what he is like, then you pull back just enough to see what his level of pursuit and interest really is?

I don't have to ask if I am getting close, because I already know that I am, since many, if not most, of us really do this, it's many little tests that we use... lol

Much of this is just instinctively in our DNA, and nothing we are taught, and of course, there are many variations of this, and each girl has her own variation.

Obviously, this is something we do in our earlier dating days, not so much when we get older.

So it's confession time! ... what is your way of doing it, or ways you have done it in the past?

Guys, what ways have you seen girls playing Hard-To-Get without totally shutting you down?

Share your thoughts about this... PLEASE!

I'm curious is there ever an instance where a girl could beat up a boy.
Like not a 18 year old girl beating up a 9 year old boy... I mean a girl and boy that are the same age.. roughly about tweens or teens?

Is it really possible?
(Im not going to beat up a boy fyi.. I'm just curious on everyones opinion)

And I'm not giving you a maybe option cause everyone would choose that one..

By "Simple Minded" I don't mean stupid, I just mean less complex than some girls are in their reasoning and intellect.

Demanding for a Woman to be Submissive is cruel and repressive

Why do so many blame female dress styles for rapes, assaults and other crimes against women and girls, as so many are saying that they do?

Do females have to turn to Islamic style burka's, or centuries old Victorian Style Dress, and cover from head to foot, in order to be safe from predictors?

Extremists say that even the slightest showing of arms and/or legs will insight the lust of a testosterone induced male and cause the ones with the least amount of self control to attack females.

What is the truth?

... and before you get triggered guys, I am not suggesting that all men are predictors, I am only talking about the ones that truly are... AND THEY DO EXIST!!

Share your thoughts on this most controversial subject... PLEASE!

Is it just my imagination playing tricks on me or does this really happen?

I have noticed it more than once.

Is it safer for guys to just look away in situations like that so that girls won’t think that they are trying to get a peek if they are really not trying, or is it the girls fault for wearing a skirt, or dress, that isn't long enough?

I have also heard of guys using their cell phone cameras to try and video up girls skirts as well, but haven’t seen anyone actually doing it myself …'yet'.

But there are video's of it all over the internet... are those staged, or real?

What has been your experience with this, if any?

I posted a question few days back that which Halloween Outfit should i choose for my party
Which outfit should I choose for Halloween?
But as most of the opinions i got was those costumes were not representing Halloween and i should choose something else therefore i am posting this poll again with different options this time.
Please help me choose which costume should i get for my Halloween Party
Thanks for your opinions girls and guys and those of you who dont like the very open ways a girl dresses up... i respect your opinions too but please dont get rude with me or others.
Thanks again for your opinion and time.

@ThatDude29 Its a special kind of allure that just captivates. It's very powerful. When a women uses her femininity in the right way she has at her command literally a generation of men. And i don't mean that hyperbolically. And i'm not talking about sexual.

@backdoorman We men are irresistibly attracted to femininity, a fact that seems lost on many of today's women, who it seems have been led to believe femininity = weakness. Trust me when I say that as long as there are straight men in this world, femininity will be power, not weakness.

@hellionthesagereborn I feel like in any other era this question would have a very obvious answer. I don't need a woman to be strong because no matter how strong she will never be as strong as myself. I don't need a woman who acts like a man because I am a man. She can however offer something I can never have which is femininity. She can be nurturing in a way that I cannot provide for myself, she can instill in me a sense of purpose. Men are built to provide and protect women and family. This gives them a reason to strive and a reason to work hard because they have someone to make these sacrifices for. If she chooses the man she is saying he is important enough that she wants and that she trusts in his value enough that she thinks he will pass on the best of himself to her offspring (that's a very big deal). So yes femininity is desired, doesn't mean she can't like masculine things, but it does mean that she will have a certain outlook and a certain behavior that can only be done by women.

@Average_but_not_Joe I've known people who believe being feminine means showing off assets to get attention and girly-girl means doing makeup and going to parties. I am looking for someone that'll have my back when I need it, a partner.

Do you believe that you should always trust and follow your intuition no matter what, even if the logical side of your brain is telling you that you’re just being irrational? For example, if you just get a bad or uneasy feeling about a particular person and/or situation, even though on the outside all appears to be fine, you should go with your instinct? Or do you think you should try to convince yourself that you’re just being paranoid, because maybe you are just being silly? What do you think? In my own experience, anytime I’ve been in a situation where I just didn’t get a good feeling about someone, and I couldn’t explain why, in the end I turned out to be right. But not before almost getting myself into trouble because I would just convince myself that I was being ridiculous because they seemed to be a nice, normal person (note that I used the word “seemed”). Has your intuition ever been wrong? Or do you have any examples of when you trusted it above all else and you were glad you did?

How do you feel when you sit on a warm toilet seat?