Guys, do you prefer a simple minded girl or a more intelligent complex minded one? Girls, which are you?

Question

By "Simple Minded" I don't mean stupid, I just mean less complex than some girls are in their reasoning and intellect.

chickenneck75 · Accepted Answer

My wife the chemist and I'm electrician x tattoo artist so she automatically assumed but I don't know what the hell I'm talking about I have to Google it show her to prove to her that I was right she never says you're right. She assumeds she smarter than everybody else and she might be when it comes to chemistry she's got to have the say-so over everything in the house a fucking dictatorship is what it is. She works around m men so she feels like she's got a outdo them always trying to do better than the men. Bring this attitude home weather the same one she's always right , she's validated herself she's a boss why must you keep trying to show everybody up I'll take offense that you didn't hear something or that if you're wrong you're wrong say I'm wrong I'm sorry I don't know

Corerue · Accepted Answer

I chose Complex. I want someone who challenges me intellectually, someone I can have deep conversations with and make long term financial plans with.

My wife is a middle of the road sort of girl. She is simple in a lot of the long term planning parts but super complex when it comes to creating 3d printing crafts and what not. But talking about Investing and money makes her sleepy lmao.

arabgoddess · Accepted Answer

I'm a simple minded frustrated and exhausted girl

Secret6620 · Accepted Answer

Super intelligent 🖤

honorboundHeart884 · Answer

little of both, simply I'd like her to be confident, kind to her self, to me, to others, but strong and opinionated when need be. Creative, passionate, driven, soft , vulnerable when we learn to love , build with one another's hopes and dreams. Silly and playful, serious when need be.

Adventurous, exploratory when need be.

Reserved, graceful, elegant and regal at times of deep discovery.

To be the love that held me like , I held her for if we lived life time after lifetime, quoting , knowing only we, her.

But alas yet , we have not met, stumbled upon her.

we remain only her pillar of humility and heart beat waiting, reaching, for only salt, never sugar until deemed beloved.

Nik1hil · Answer

Honestly I am good with both..

With a simple mind girl, relationship will be easy and sweet.. And I would savor that and less quarrel or fight..
This relationship won't have that wildfire..

With an intelligent girl..
It will be very passionate.. Because she will read my lies..
Not get fooled.. Fool me..
Play with me..
Seduce me..
Use me.. Misuse me.. Toy with me.. Tease me.. It will be very deep..
But if i hurt her.. She will ruin me.. enslave me..
If I fall weak.. She will protect me.. Fight for me love me..
But after a while this relationship might get exhausting..
And that wildfire could turn me into cinders..

Both of them will give equally great relationships.
With their own Pro and cons..

I am intelligent so I can easily be happy in both conditions..

GuildLegend435 · Answer

haha, i had a chance to date a girl majoring in theoretical mathematics, but she had some kind of ptsd with physical contact with some deep seeded issues, and i had to back off for both our sakes.

but totally would have had the hugest boner over her math knowledge lol <3 we would have been able to discuss all kinds of mathematical related topics.

i1T2daty · Answer

I get turned off even by Minor issues like inability to spell on case matching. I really do fall for a woman's mind as much as for her body. A smart woman is apt to be more open to sdgier stuff and brings lots of her own tricks to the table I think the truest indicator of brains that isn't dependent on education is humor.
What lies betwixt their ears will likely give you a good idea of the pleasure available betwixt her legs

BoodaW · Answer

I am a bigamist and hope to have many wives to live out my long and happy life with. Creates an attachment of a persona or trait is very unhealthy and leads to a person hoping for that particular trait to rub off. In reality you must obtain a sense of integrity to make your own gains instead of importing and endearing things that you want from others. Building up someone in your head isn't fair to the person you would otherwise never talk to if not for the one trait. Don't burden others with your will until you have the will yourself!

Lliam · Answer

I find women who can be described as air heads or bimbos boring. They can be fun in bed but the physical attraction soon wears off.
I prefer women who are bright, witty, intuitive, inquisitive, open minded, and have good senses of humor. Level of education isn't that important. Kindness, empathy, compassion, and tenderness are also extremely important.

AbleLearner · Answer

I need an intelligent woman. I want someone who beats me at stuff, like card games or scrabble, or income, and so Yang Xue ("Snow") certainly beats me at income and total vocabulary, being fluent in both Mandarin and English.

Yeah, she' a beautiful woman, but the fact she's a bonafide genius makes me turned on to her even more.

morimeme1 · Answer

Honestly I don't consider myself simple at all and no one has ever used that word to describe me, I do take my education seriously and enjoy intellectual stimulation but I don't feel comfortable with a description "highly educated super smart itelligent girl, with more complex reasoning mind". That just sounds condescending and arrogant, like something a person who is the exact opposite would say about themselves.

normalice · Answer

Being intelligent and simple minded are not mutually exclusive. Indeed, I would say being simple minded is more akin to being organized, which helps one better channel their intelligence.

But in general, I prefer a quiet environment. Whichever is more likely to contribute to silence is preferred.

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

An intellect is the sexiest thing to me. I need someone that can be my friend, partner, conversationalist, and equal. I find intellegent women to more likely be physically fit, and very sexually active. I rarely find simple minded women to stimulate my mind in that way, while still being as sexually active. It's all or nothing to me.

FunkyDrummer70 · Answer

I absolutely Needs someone intelligent. She doesn't need to feel the urge to prove it all the time but is confident enough to handle herself in any social situation where conversation is expected. She also should be able to challenge my thinking in a good way. I am the kind of man who will lean on my significant other... want council from her and I want to be able to respect her thoughts. Hard to do if you question the kind of thinker she is lol

anupamagrawal · Answer

I like to live my life Simple. Thre are so many complex things to sort out in life - I don't want pretty and beautiful girls to be one of them who needs reason and tricks to figure out. I like girls with whom I can be happy together and enjoy our relation without some mind-games.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Complications are not always a sign of intelligence. She ideally would speak plainly and directly, but with complex thoughts and ideas and intuitions under the surface. Some girls use "I'm just complicated" to excuse dramatic behaviour. Generally speaking though I find intelligence attractive when its combined with emotional intelligence too. I'm attracted to empaths with heart of gold and a head screwed on straight

anon1903 · Answer

personally speaking, simple minded people are really easy to deal with. It doesn't take a lot to impress them.

Education doesn't make you "complex" and I know a few smart people with simple minds.

Mind isn't a dominant factor when checking for dates.

Especially if as a intelligent woman I won't give you a green card to take me.

smølf · Answer

You have mixed it all up, education and intelligence is not related at all.

Simple minded that be defined in many ways, but if stupid or ignorant then most men will consider it to be a negative.

But simple minder is in contrast to complicated, bitchy or dominating however, then its a positive.

In general intelligent but nice, caring soft and sweet, will be the popular option.

_SOARER_ · Answer

Simple. The simpler the better.
Its funny because I used to think i was intelligent and complex, but realized all that stuff, is sort of meaningless. Reality is simple.

I find self-proclaimed, intelligent and complex people, to be very out of touch with whats real.

Give me the simple girl 100% <3

beto-in-the-bay · Answer

There are women who are genuinely smart, and sure that attracts me. I have run into far more women who think themselves smart because they, say, read the Harry Potter series in school. Examples of Dunning–Kruger are exhausting to deal with regardless of gender, and are far more prevalent than the genuinely intelligent.

Taylor_C · Answer

I´m intrigued to see 4 guys are claiming to be highly intelligent girls, and 5 guys claiming to be simple minded girls...

MadBoy · Answer

Honestly I can find a benefit to both. Simple minded people are nice to hang around because they see things in a more, well, simple light lol. They are fine with the world and are happy, and usually like to spread that happiness around. Intelligent girls are ones that have amazing, philosophical conversations with that end up going for hours at a time.

Rob171977 · Answer

These results are funny 7 guys answered the women's portion. If that's the case as them being transgender (which I have no problem with them being) shouldn't their screennames be pink or have a female user name or something

Ceasar97 · Answer

I would like a complex intelligent girl; one that would allow for complex conversations. Simple can be intelligent and complex in all fairness; for example: I think, therefore I am.

Insomnia72 · Answer

It doesn't really matter to me. But because I'm an imaginative person, I enjoy the company of women whom are also creative in thought. It's more fun that way.

19magic · Answer

I'm a pretty simple minded gal, laid back and love to look at the world around me sometimes well a lot of the time I kinda wish I didn't have a phone, but then I just think of all the work I've gotta do and how I need a phone or something to do that

thealias · Answer

Had to go other as I like simple-minded yet intelligent people; I'd like to think of myself the same way, in that despite having an IQ higher than my age I am really not that hard to figure out and am extremely laid-back.

BirdFan360 · Answer

I need to have deep conversations when I speak, or I don't speak at all. May seem harsh, but small talk is just a formality. I will always be required to answer 'I'm fine, and you?' if I am asked how I am. Its nice to ask, but its always scripted. We know what we will get in response.

We're like birds! Birds!

We squawk at each other and return with the appropriate squawk.

But that's ok. Birds are awesome.

Tangent over, wish I could make my post anonymous. Ok then.

KristaGrym · Answer

I am not the typical basic chick and no one likes me so I will say that they like them at least basic (I am not saying dumb)

MsLexiD · Answer

I think I"m a bit of both - I'm highly educated, have a demanding job, and am really successful - but in my personal life it could be said I'm pretty simple...

Nxtawm · Answer

I'm a mix of both, I'm more intelligent or I think in a more complex reasoning mind however, I tend to prefer not "thinking" much 😅 So once I'm outta school, I'm wayyy dumber, and much more simple.

HollyTran · Answer

Smarter is better - of course!! Always, and anyways you are going out with the whole person which means smarter and fun!! :-)

dwiller943 · Answer

Smart women are only "hard to figure out" if you're slow in the brain.

Passinggas · Answer

It doesn’t matter because I just adapt to what she is at the time. F… they change anyways, always. It is just like being outside, exposed to the elements, and not knowing what that red-sky or thundercloud will bring.

kamiljano · Answer

What do you consider complex? I know some super smart girls with PhD degrees in various fields, yet I wouldn't call any of them particularly complex o_o

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Complex. I love stimulating intellectual conversation. I can't stand a conversation with the opposite sex where "idk" is the majority of the answers or she has no opinion or can't formulate an opinion on something so we can discuss.

Finchie40 · Answer

I prefer simple minded girl that that knows how to enjoy the little things in life , that is loving and fun. That doesn't act like her shit doesn't stink

JC451 · Answer

I've tried dating simple minded girls and I just can't. The lack of intellectual stimulation kills me.

NatePsychologyMajor · Answer

Intelligent myself, however chemistry and a sense of humor gets to my heart faster. No wonder I'm single.

Jjpayne · Answer

Simple minded yet enjoys pop culture mainly because in many ways I'm simple minded and am more at peace that way

Pink_momi92 · Answer

I think I’m highly intelligent and very analytical minded. I do like being that way but I think it’s kinda intimidating for a lot of guys so I try hard to appear intelligent around guys I like sometimes 😜😢

alice55 · Answer

Don't know I always been told I'm smart but then I've been told I was very naive (especially when it come to relationship) so I don't know

leahzrc · Answer

I am not simple minded but that doesn't mean that I am academically inclined so I guess I am just "minded"

Haelaeix123 · Answer

I prefer a more complex minded one because I often wander onto the topic of philosophy during my conversations

ronaldo75 · Answer

I'm simple minded but intelligent. I would want a simple minded but intelligent woman. Too may "complex women" aren't much of shit. Not that smart and they're just a psychological mess. These are the "artists" and creators that never do anything that stands out and never really do anything.

markscott · Answer

I find intelligence to be something very attractive in a girl.

themaker39 · Answer

I don't think in these terms but I want her to not speak dumb shit but be smart and kind. Not smart to discuss physics but with a lot of common sense

leonidas69 · Answer

I like being able to communicate with my words. Don't like it when people try to understand me. They miss all the time.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I've always said, I'd like a girl that's dumb enough for me to teach her stuff but smart enough to teach me stuff.

RHK36 · Answer

Simple. The complex intellectual sounds like she's going to be a problem. Overthinking, picky and complicated are other words I'd associate with the complex girl minded female.

Avicenna · Answer

A better reasoner is definitely preferred. But I like street smart women with common sense.

Lightning8 · Answer

it depends how she is complex or how she is simple minded. Her values can screw either one up. But I will say that I like a good philosophical conversation.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

I rather be with a super duper sexual and spiritual magnificent woman with intelligence like you, madam @laurieluvsit Can I be your sexual exorcist? :)

Massageman · Answer

I prefer a girl who is intelligent enough to act simple-minded once in awhile. Think about it ;- )

jwr199 · Answer

I like a girl to be herself , so in my opinion it really doesn't matter

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I like both types, as long as they keep their minds free from shit.

loveslongnails · Answer

Simpletons get to be very boring after a short while. Give me a girl who has a mind.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t think people need to be complicated and difficult to be super intelligent.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

The more smarter she is the better. I deeply admire smart people, besides you can't grow being around someone just as smart as you.

LazyMan · Answer

I'd just like a woman to be somewhere in the middle. They don't have to be a genius. But I don't want to be in a relationship with an idiot either.

jizzyjay · Answer

Either one or the other. When they are somewhere in between then the worst traits of both tend to show through. They think they know shit but dont actually know shit.

darkgames · Answer

Honestly complexity makes it so your constantly lost in thought about the person and makes you think about them more as well if there intelligent and complex minded it allows for deep conversations on many topics causing a closer bond in the end

Supermosh1990 · Answer

I wasn’t a girl that is easy to please and simple minded

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