Girls, do you prefer very deep thinkers or very quick thinkers?

[Anonymous]

...Some guys are very quick to think up the perfect sollution or the perfect thing to say at the perfect time, others have very deep thinking capabilities that cause them to become great writers, philosophers, etc... I'm not saying its not possible to be both but I mean its not common to be an extremely quick thinker AND an extremely deep thinker. Obviously, no one is gonna change how their mind works but I wanna see how different people view things.

thanks

[Anonymous]

I guess I want someone who thinks sort of the way I do, someone who doesn't just think the way some of his exes told him to think or society told him to think.

that's what sort of caused me and my guy to have arguments because he just thought the way his ex told him to think. That sex was great exercise, have as much sex as he can with whomever, have it with tons of positions with tons of foreplay and tons of food in all over the place would make him cool. And living with someone was the "American" lifestyle, that is living with them when you are 15ish-17ish.

And he worshipped her like she was some kind of God.

don't get me wrong here, it was all fine and dandy for his way of thinking and I told him to go F himself. But he was really sad and such so I continued to yell at him and tell him my hurt feelings.

First of all she is NOT a god and she is just a human being. I'm a Christian. He was like, but he can talk to her and have sex with her and hold her and he can't do that with God. Obviously she brain washed him pretty good.

Second of all, just having tons of experience does NOT make you that cool. And looking down on others for not having that experience is NOT cool. that's what he did to me.

thirdly, treating your new squeeze like your EX is NOT cool. He wanted me to wear his clothes all the time like his ex did. How uncool is that. He should go to hell just for that. I mean, think a little here.

Why did I marry the dumb dude? Well firstly, his ex left him for another guy for the past 7 years and she moved to CA (we're from WI). so I doubt he will have her back even though he wants to.

secondly I don't think he will ever have sex with another woman besides me since he thinks he is so ugly and also he will talk about his ex continuously which is a total turn off... how GAY

so just THINK, THINK and try to THINK deep. don't just talk, but really think about your life adn see if what you are doing or saying is ok.

[haijal]

You say "I'm a Christian. " yet you turn around and say "He should go to hell just for that. I mean, think a little here." You are settign a great example here :). so think and try to think deep about the example you have just set for those people that are not Christians.

Have a nice day.

[Opinion Owner]

the bible says "among you there should not be any hint of sexual immorality for these are improper for the Lord's people"

[Anonymous]

I like guys who have the ability to think deeply. But with and quick thinking I think exudes a bit more intelligence (for lack of a better word) simply because they didn't have to plan out what to say. A guy who can think deeply and provide new insight on something is very attractive. It's honestly hard to say what I prefer because I have found both traits to be annoying in certain guys/situations, as well as very attractive in others.

[Opinion Owner]

**wit, not with

[Asker]

Good answer, why so anonymous? :)

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know ;) reticent I suppose, and safe way to go on the internet.

[AllDay]

Flawless answer.

[toulouse]

DEEP. I'm patient. and very thorough. I would rather wait for something worthwhile. In addition, if he's quick , he probably isn't patient & won't listen. I do not mind advice-- I welcome it if it is wise. Sorry, if you do not listen , you can not solve--not the proper problem in question anyways,

[Anonymous]

Both. Sometimes I love deep, meaningful discussions. Sometimes I love a quick witted discussion. My last boyfriend had both, so talking with him was perfect. We entertained each other and had off the cuff conversations, but we also talked about important things.

[justplayin]

hhm... it's hard to decide.. but if I had to chose I'd say quick thinker... cos I'm a quick thinker, and when it comes to a guy who's deep at thinking.. I just feel stupid, like I don't deserve him or something...

[MrsJones7]

to begin with, a deep thinker and quick thinker are not quiet the opposites. A quick thinker is a practical and smart person and ANY woman likes a practical man who can find a quick solution to most things. But women are also attracted to a deep thinker because some men are just too shallow. So a little bit of the both makes up a perfect character to me.

[Asker]

I didn't say they are opposites but very "deep thinkers" are usually not "very" quick thinkers. No one is perfect but I see what you mean, you like a balance.

[MrsJones7]

Im the both... I'm not really bragging or anything, I am the both. But if I had to pick one I'd pick a quick thinker, they make life easier.

[Ace123]

you mean You are both*. says a lot about your thinking capabilities ;p lol

[ryleemegan]

both, I love an insightful guy who really thinks about things. But at the same time I like a witty quick thinker! It all just depends on the sitution and mood.

[Anonymous]

Im both but I dont know if this girl I like likes me back.

[dryad]

I like it deep more than I like it quick

[dryad]

What? Is my humor too quick for you?

[cjwright79]

homosexual

[dryad]

Whatever gave you that idea, cj?

[Guytalks]

Funny answer! Lol

[haijal]

This is the best answer lol

[Madden_68]

rawrr wild girl...sounds good to me. I think CJ is admitting to being a homo for not liking that. He sure looks like one to me LOL

[rosemary09]

Both, depending on the situation.