Do you prefer a girl who is shy and easygoing or a girl who is outgoing and has strong opinions?

[Horse-girl]

Shy and easygoing

Outgoing and has strong opinions

[AmandaYVR]

These aren't really fair options.

Easygoing is great. EVERYONE WANTS THAT in a partner.

Outgoing is preferred by sort of half of people. It equates to the extrovert vs. introvert population, which used to be ~ 40% introvert, but it's higher now. It might even be the majority (because of everyone living online so much, covid, social skills slowly dying and being replaced by social anxiety, etc.)

Shy often relates to "sweet", in some peoples' minds.
But shy can also mean afraid to give opinions. And if she always keeps quiet, doesn't say what she means, thinks, prefers, etc etc that gets VERY draining on guys, who grow up in a more direct culture. They tend to be more opinionated, get tested more by their peers and society, and to them, not knowing what their girl is thinking is testament to having to spend their time with her "walking on eggshells." And they hate that.

[Horse-girl]

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I agree with everything that you have said.

[meetkitty123]

I don't know about dating a girl but I can say im a blend of the two options. Its a matter of balance. If I was choosing a man with either personality I would accept either or. Shy guys can be so much fun to get them out of their shell. And I know I can take a boisterous opinionated man and make him mush and ease going in my hands with gentle caresses and tones if Combined with a sweet smile and mesmerizing eye contact.

[Horse-girl]

Thank you x

[HighlyVolatile]

Outgoing and assertive. I like the type of girl who reveals the maximum to me about herself even through our earliest conversations. It minimizes the risk as I grow attracted to her that I'm not growing attracted to a girl who actually thinks very differently from my impressions so far.

It's also important if I want to make executive decisions that impact both of us in a relationship that she lets me know how she truly thinks so that the decisions I make factor in her concerns and desires.

[Horse-girl]

Thank you.

[crossdressingrihno]

Shy and easy going is better than outgoing with strong opinions I guess

But where's the confident but also easy going personality cuz you can have both of those I have both of those for the most part I'm confident but I'm chill usually anyways I can still blow my top but it's not super common

[Horse-girl]

Thank you x

[ChrisMaster69]

Both really, I don’t as such have a type.

the shy part can be a struggle if it’s a relationship killer.

The strong opinions can be a struggle as well if to extreme.

for me it’s about that emotional link rather than just personality type

[Horse-girl]

Thank you.

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem

Where would you say you sit from the question, what would describe you?

[Horse-girl]

I am more shy, but I do get better once I'm more comfortable around someone.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Horse-girl a lot of people are like thst, we often have more than one side to us, what we show everyone else and what we show the people we start to become close to, even then it’s often little by little

[Horse-girl]

Yes I was just wondering if guys would notice a shy girl and maybe try to get to know her more.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah at times it’s a sort of a finding out who the real person is underneath the shy armour

Not exactly a challenge but a mystery to solve

[Horse-girl]

Thank you!

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem, any time

[Lliam]

Between the two, I picked 'A', shy and easy going. I like women who are kind of demure. But I also like it if she's bright, inquisitive, and willing to share opinions and observations. I don't want her to be empty headed or totally passive and submissive. I value intellect.

[Horse-girl]

Thank you, that's very interesting.

[Lliam]

You're very welcome. :-)

[slatyb]

It's fine to have strong opinions if she's can express herself without insulting others.

[Horse-girl]

Thank you.

[TexasRed95]

I'm extremely shy and have very bad social anxiety. I need someone that can be the conversation starter so I can talk. I can't bring myself to even start conversations with women. It's like every muscle in my body tightens until I feel like I can't move. My heart races and I get dizzy. Sometimes its so bad I feel like I'll puke as well.

[Horse-girl]

Sorry to hear that, thank you for your opinion.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Prefer shy and easygoing. When I hear outgoing and strong opinions I imagine some blue haired pierced feminist activist SJW

[Horse-girl]

Thank you for replying!

[Ghen30]

I'm a shy and easy going person. But if I have strong opinions, I keep them to myself to avoid any arguments. And I would prefer a guy who is similar to me so we get along well.

[Horse-girl]

Yes I am pretty similar. Thank you for your opinion.

[one1wild00]

Although I like the shy and demure gals, the strong gals I know will be ok if something causes my absence I won't be leaving them defenseless they will be ok on their own.

[megabamse]

Huff i hope not to shy. Shy often is a frustrating thing to deal with

[Anonymous]

Depends on there attitudes. You don't want someone that lets people steam roll over them, but you don't want the other extreme either where a "I'm better than the world" attitude comes into play. Somewhere in-between is preferred.

[Horse-girl]

That's very true. Thank you.

[Guardian45]

I have strong opinions, so I need someone who can show me "the error of my ways"! 😂

[HawkPerception]

Both are great. I like a either a shy or outgoing girl, but I would like either of them to be both easy going with strong opinions.

[Wise4myage]

Outgoing and strong opinions.

[NorthwestRider]

I like dominant women so B

[TrillXHippy]

I prefer a girl that is shy and easygoing

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Quiet and strong. Not arrogant, STRONG

[Horse-girl]

Thank you.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

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[clemdenim]

Some where in the middle is ideal

[Horse-girl]

Thank you!

[clemdenim]

Which are you

[Horse-girl]

I'm more shy.

[clemdenim]

How do you respond to innocent teasing

[Horse-girl]

I enjoy it. I probably would blush, laugh/smile.

[clemdenim]

Great, so you do not get defensive

[Horse-girl]

No, so long as it's nothing hurtful.

[clemdenim]

Great

[IsoUser]

I guess I prefer both.

[AlwaysBelieving]

A mix of all

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Shy and Easygoing

[JesseJayNeak]

Shy and easygoing