Questions: Girl's Behavior

The trend seems to be a bit inconsistent in todays day and age.

Lesbian women have a much more smaller and specialized pool to select from vs guys. I get that. But they also are not as threatening and virtually have no risk of the “creep” factor when approaching other women.

Good looking guys do get a lot more leeway to approach women when all else is equal. But even they have to be cautious of the “creep element”. These problems include:

- The girl they approach might just be in a bad mood.

- She might already be taken by a very possessive boyfriend (unbeknownst to the guy). A lesbian doesn’t have to worry about a violent backlash from a possessive boyfriend/husband unless she is over the top aggressive. Even then she well be dealt with more softly vs another man

- She might be one of the few women who doesn’t find him attractive (while most others do)

- He might inadvertently say or do something off putting when he was trying to come off as confident and funny.

- A lesbian can be more touchy/feely with other woman and has much less risk of having the other person get upset or worse

Overall woman are much less threatening to other women no matter their intentions

However a lesbian/bi girl does have another big challenge of knowing the other girl likes girls or not. Worst case scenario it’s just awkward if the other girl is 100% hetero. But not a big deal.

there's this kinda shy and quiet girl i liked that I've appraoched at work and talked to a few times and she recriprocated like she's also interested in getting to know me. But the thing is she act like she's uninterested, very shy or intmindated of me through body language. For example, when we walk past each other or stay close to each other she would just look to the ground or when she's walking and looks up and sees me, she quickly look away/at the ground. Never ever initiate convos with me but if i do, she does seemed interested in talking with me as im also a very quiet guy as well. She just can't seem to look at me unless i approached and talk to her. What is she thinking?

I literally get high from it…