Girls, Why can’t I just have sex that’s all I want?

[TonightYouu]

I’m young I make a lot of cash I have a decent face I’m over 6ft tall and I’m in shape I don’t want to date I don’t want to get married I don’t like breaking girls hearts and making them think I love them just to get in their pants and even if I do meet a girl who just wants to have sex why can’t girl have sex without getting emotionally attached why can’t sex just be sex I don’t like hurting women but it’s the only way I can have sex

I’ve actually stopped having sex because I don’t like doing this to women I use to not feel bad because I’m an introvert women always talk to me first but I’m just not able to fully control my hormones I’ve never met a woman I cared about and I’m tired of using women not like it’s my fault but I’m somewhat compassionate I feel a little guilt over using women

but is this like science or something why can’t women just have nothing degrading one night stand sex with no attachments like we men can ladies please help me out here because I don’t understand is this a female thing?

[AmandaYVR]

There are plenty of girls nowadays who want the same as you. It's why there are drown-downs in the menu of hookup/casual and all that.

The one and only thing you need to do is be upfront and honest. Every. single. time. Tell them, straight away, preferably before you even meet. A lot of girls are fine with this.

What will happen is you will be using them for their body, and they will be using you for the same. So you better have the goods. You need to be attractive, know how to handle and carry yourself, dress well, don't be a dick in any way.

I've talked with guys here, in pm, who eventually adopted this strategy, and it worked MUCH better for them, they had a higher success rate, when they were totally upfront.

But if you aren't that good looking, don't know how to style yourself right, and treat them respectfully over messaging and text, and have decent photos taken of yourself, you won't get the good looking ones you probably want. Like-with-like, that's how it goes. Don't overshoot, overreach, and don't go out looking for the low self-esteem girls who are messed up in the head, needing many guys to have sex with them to feel of some value. You've got a sex drive, and so do many girls, who want nothing more, right now. So say that.

And P. S. I almost didn't answer this because of that. gif. I can't stand them. Next time, and depending on how you respond to this comment, I won't comment again. But I'm giving you a chance, and trying to help you out.

[TonightYouu]

I get where you’re coming from believe me I do but I just don’t understand why women can’t just have sex and that he it I’ve had sex with many girls and they all try to lock me down and I hate saying this because I feel like I’m bragging but it’s true I’m good at sex and good sex makes women stupid and they always end up wanting more and I don’t understand I don’t like your don’t be a dick advice because I have to be because those are the guys women fuck

Are you sure you’re not viewing this from a relationship standpoint because I’m just talking about sex nothing else most guys share my sentiments and girls end up feeling terrible because guys who are in my position don’t have to settle are you familiar with Pig Parties

[AmandaYVR]

* drop-downs in the menu

Ok, well you're making a good point. Yes, girls do like to "lock guys down." They also get more easily emotionally attached.
But it begs the question, why do you never want more? No one is ever interesting enough to go back to again? As much as I understand some men's desire for freedom, there is also sometimes an undeniable aversion to intimacy. Men rarely want to cop to that, but it does exist.

There are tons of people nowadays who are calling what they are in as friends with benefits, however they are not friends, they don't even give each other that much. I think those situations are messy, but would you be open to at least pretending to care about them this much, or is regular contact of any kind out of the q?

Guys don't actually have to be dicks to get girls. It's more about being cool, easygoing, independent and no codependent. But being a dick is taking the interpretation too far.

Here, I dug this up for you, a q I asked a while ago.
Read through the comments, but in particular zeitgeist's. Does that sound like you? He seems to have found a way to be honest but not have attachments.
Men who sleep with many women... what is the reason? ↗

[Anonymous]

It's hard to take your question seriously when you post all those stupid pictures.

[TonightYouu]

Well it’s hard to take your opinion serious when you’re anonymous