At what point will you consider it bordeline rude?

[Crosudo]

I asked a girl i like out, it was only the teo of us when i asked so i told her she can think about and doesn't have to answer right away. She kinda said that its a weird period in her life, which is not realated to me I assured her that if its not right then just say no, and we will still be friends. That was two days ago When we split up she said “we’ll talk” (in a good way) Since then, we didn't exchange a text At what point will u consider it kinda rude? Also, im aware she’s probably not interested But im just looking for the “official” answer Thank u

[devilish-cutie]

well i know its hard but you gotta be patient. Some people never give you the final answer either cause confrontation is too much to them or they keep you as option

As of your situation its either she of 2 mentioned, but it could also be she is interested but needs time. So only time will tell, in the meantime try to occupy ysf with something else.

[Crosudo]

The thing is ,
Im gonna see her in the upcoming Sunday, as we are in the same class in our studies

[devilish-cutie]

well then try to maybe just be friendly and see by her behavior how you stand
by the way good for you that you were brave and asked her

[Guy13]

In my view, you did it to yourself with two negative statements that would have made me turn around and go the other way. "Think about it because I'm a freak" "Don't have to say yes now" "Say No if not right": Last thing I need is a blatantly obvious insecure date... and one that would never be able to overcome my Past Difficulties.

She went from considering it to rejecting it. Negative words in promoting Self is always going to implode...

[Crosudo]

Alright so i said it from two main reasons,
1. I dont want to pressure her into saying yes
When its one on one it could be extra scary , awkward and hard
I didn't want her to feel that way, i wanted her to say yes only if she truly wants to.
And im sticking by that the decision as thats who i am.

The other thing is she (in my understanding) said , this isn't really the right , even if she does like (I don't know if she is) simply bunch of stuff going on. And then again. Im not forcing anything, i want a healthy relationship that we both wanna be there, and if she can't right now, and it happens
Who am i to force it?

[Guy13]

Again, negative assumptions when one does not know until one gets in the situation. The one's that seem good are often not for whatever reason (s). Obviously, you do not realize the energy that you convey. Strong, reliable, doubt you are going to tell me anything that phases me.. with gentle smile and a calm positivity with "not shocked". Just me... no offense intended.

[In_Trance]

If there's no response, you move on. Block her.