Is it necessary to at a certain point change the topic when chatting with a female stranger?

[Anonymous]

Hey
Everytime i chat with a girl with the same secual preferences, she would stop the conversation sometime. Is she embarrassed?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I know I would get bored just talking about the same thing for hours so try to have other things you can just talk about besides sex. This way you don't look like you are only there for one reason.

[Asker]

I'm imagining myself writing dirty stuff and then: "by the way do you have pets?"

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Something like "Oooh i really love doggy style. Speaking of doggy style, do you have any pets?" Lmao

It doesn't have to be such a harsh transition in conversation but just be a good conversationalist and be prepared to mix things up.

[Asker]

So a bit sexting, then smalltalk and then maybe asking her out right?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

If she is into the sexting then sure.

[Asker]

if s. o. is just into sexting, then sure at one point they would ignore me. Sexting is just the means to an end

[jennifer_bloom]

I avoid it cause I view it as sinful, not embarrassed.

[Still-alive]

you should be up to talk about anything. trust me women love that shit lol. like there's virtually nothing you don't know something about or find interesting.

[Asker]

so after i recognized get goal is sex, I should talk about sth. else?

[Still-alive]

change the topics up yeah

[Asker]

and when do you think should i ask her out? Women seem to be scared of this question

[Still-alive]

i would go for it at least after one good conversation with her at least.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Maybe