Polls: Girl's Behavior

Yes I’m Indian in a very white place. I have a couple friends here. But I’m 24 and one day I’ll have to find a wife to settle down with.

I just can’t see myself finding a girl ever that’s really nice. Sometimes I wonder if I really do want to date these girls.

How do you think about short men in the range of 5'4 to 5'7?

As a short man i must tell you it's really tough and life sucks TBH :( especially in terms of self esteem and confidence... in general and around/with women specifically.

Also mention your height.

Try not to pay attention to the faces, however hard that may seem

also if you are a stubble lover, would you prefer a light one, or a bit heavier one

I tried getting the girls to go to the beach with me but they rather sit at home and browse social media. Which is fine, the girls can do that, so I went alone.

As I’ve gotten older I’ve gotten much more careful at mentioning sex to a girl on a dating app. It’s can be entertaining conversation. But even if she responds positively I find it lowers the chance of meeting up. There are a few rare situations when a girl wants a quick fling. But unless she thinks I am an 8 or higher that’s unlikely nowadays.

Anyway I am not “all about sex”. I do not mind chatting someone up. But sex is part of it. No man is going to be on a dating app looking for a platonic relationship.

The trend seems to be a bit inconsistent in todays day and age.

Lesbian women have a much more smaller and specialized pool to select from vs guys. I get that. But they also are not as threatening and virtually have no risk of the “creep” factor when approaching other women.

Good looking guys do get a lot more leeway to approach women when all else is equal. But even they have to be cautious of the “creep element”. These problems include:

- The girl they approach might just be in a bad mood.

- She might already be taken by a very possessive boyfriend (unbeknownst to the guy). A lesbian doesn’t have to worry about a violent backlash from a possessive boyfriend/husband unless she is over the top aggressive. Even then she well be dealt with more softly vs another man

- She might be one of the few women who doesn’t find him attractive (while most others do)

- He might inadvertently say or do something off putting when he was trying to come off as confident and funny.

- A lesbian can be more touchy/feely with other woman and has much less risk of having the other person get upset or worse

Overall woman are much less threatening to other women no matter their intentions

However a lesbian/bi girl does have another big challenge of knowing the other girl likes girls or not. Worst case scenario it’s just awkward if the other girl is 100% hetero. But not a big deal.

there's this kinda shy and quiet girl i liked that I've appraoched at work and talked to a few times and she recriprocated like she's also interested in getting to know me. But the thing is she act like she's uninterested, very shy or intmindated of me through body language. For example, when we walk past each other or stay close to each other she would just look to the ground or when she's walking and looks up and sees me, she quickly look away/at the ground. Never ever initiate convos with me but if i do, she does seemed interested in talking with me as im also a very quiet guy as well. She just can't seem to look at me unless i approached and talk to her. What is she thinking?

I literally get high from it…

Do you also feel that women's legs /thighs is really appealing, attractive and sexy... much more than a man's... or is it only what men feel and think because of their hormones and attraction towards women?

Gu

About a week and half ago I chatted up a much younger girl. She was shy but interested once she warmed up to me. We chatted for a long time. I texted she her the next day but got no response.

I definitely know better than to keep on messaging women when they don’t respond. So I haven’t contacted her since. Haven’t heard from her either. I decided to let 10 days pass and tomorrow I’ll send a simple hello.

Obviously when people don’t message first or respond promptly it’s a bad sign. But I can’t help but wonder if a much younger woman might feel more hesitant to contact an older guy vs a guy her own age despite being interested. Like she expects me to take 100% control of everything. Maybe that’s just wishful thinking.

I am trying to tread carefully here without being boring. We were both upfront and honest about we wanted (a fling on the DL). But I know much younger women change their minds more than wind changes direction. She definitely had me interested.