Do you prefer a girly girl or tomboy?

Question

I’m a tomboy. I always have been and prob always will be. I’ve tried to be soft and stuff but that’s just not me at all.

I can be girl when I need to be but if you spend the night don’t expect a cute pj set. I’m wearing basketball shorts and a big shirt 😭

What do you prefer?

bubblegunnn · Accepted Answer

Omg same im a tomboy too! Its like.. cute sweety colorful things its not me and my thing.. i tried to wear heels but i dont like it and always wear sneakers, i tried to wear tight colorful dress but not my thing too, always wear things like baggy jeans, sweatpants, oversized shirts, hoodie.. and if u open my closet, dont expect me to have pink, blue or colorful things.. it just all black, white, grey, i might have navy or olive green too but never bright colorful things lmao, and my hair always short, longest one was only bra strap length, and always cut it chin length hair or even ear length hair..

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I’ve never been the girly type. I dont like makeup nor nail polish. I only wear heels and dresses to events which is like once or twice a year. Otherwise I dress casually comfortable af. And I’m not exactly a tomboy anymore. Back in school, after school, i liked playing baseball with the boys and stuff and I used to wrestle with em when they came over to play the game and stuff. But i dont really do any of that now. So im more neutral than either or

people hate my style lmao

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

I'm a very competitive dude with a go-getter mindset, so I would prefer a girl that nicely compliments that by being feminine rather than assertive. If I get in a relationship with a girl that is a tomboy, we will definitely clash and it will not work out. You have to understand that relationships shouldn't be a struggle, and it doesn't matter how great of a leader you are if your girl doesn't let you take the lead in the first place. The pilot has authority over the rest of the flight attendants. If there is no order and hierarchy, then there can only be chaos.

Hopefully that makes sense.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

I said tomboy, because ultimately she needs to be a tomboy at heart and able to hang with the adventures and not be worried about chipping her nails or whatever.

Hoooooooooowever, I do love the girly girl look, when a girl gets all done up and puts on the makeup and full outfit.

I just don't expect that every day/night, or even week. I'd much rather she be rough and tumble and ready to blow the doors down.

Jennyjenjen_420 · Answer

For me, there is a time and place to look like a girly girl. The rest of the time I’m a tomboy. My mom is a girly girl all the time and she had always wanted me to be like her. Needless to say, I rebelled. I do however think if you are going some where nice then dress for the occasion. I never had a need to impress others with how I look. You either like me or you don’t. If you don’t like me then eff off anyhow. I’m not about to wear makeup and get my hair all nice just to go to the grocery store, a waste of time but my mom does that and whatever makes her happy.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I mixter of both girls would be really nice, I love how most tomboys can most of the time defend themselves of certain dangers plus they tend to have fun personalities or cooler hobbies. What I love about girly girls is their traditional feminine viewpoints I definitely can't never go wrong with a girl who enjoys dressing sexy while making me a home cook meal.

Maybe a girl who is definitely in between a girl who dresses really feminine but can still play video games with sounds like my kinda girl.

Anonymous · Answer

In between, or both. How cool is it when a girl can be cute and feminine but still be one of the guys? It's like there's a level of confidence there and willingness to just let loose and have fun and not give a crap.

It's not that common of a thing in women, and I think it's really sexy, when a good looking girl can just let loose and not worry about "breaking a nail" yeah?

There's all this talk about women being more masculine and men being more feminine, and a lot of people and the media takes it way too far, but I think there is truth to it... In the end it's just being more empathetic and understanding both sides of the coin and just putting your best and most complete self forward.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never been with one that was on either "extreme" all my girlfriends were in the middle, and a mix of few things depending on the circumstance, personally... I do not have a particular preference, as long as they're genuine about themselves, I will like it...

Black_Ivory · Answer

I prefer a woman who is a tomboy over a girly girl who wears too much makeup.

I like a woman who can get down and get dirty and does worry about breaking a finger nail.

I especially like women who take up martial arts and not afraid to kick a guy's ass. It makes consensual wrestling bedroom play a lot more fun. It is cool when the victor gets to be on top and be dominant on the sex play. I do not even care about if I win or if she wins. Just as long as we both are having fun.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am comfortable either way. I am raising my daughter to do the same. Have class, elegance at the same time, be able to defend herself.
Mira not that she dress sexy but can if when need to.
I do not want her to be all girly that would be annoying to me.

young_OG96 · Answer

Well you dress for your comfort, just like you mentioned if it’s a one night stand you’re not really going to be comfortable enough to show your feminine girly girl side, as compared to a suitable companion who makes you comfortable enough to want to dress like a girly girl. But I definitely prefer the first but accept that as a man I need to provide an environment for you to be comfortable enough

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I'm more of a masculine person myself and prefer similar in ladies.

I was a tomboy growing up, too, so I feel like we'd just click better.

But I'm also not repulsed by femmes. As long as they're not... Y'know... Mean Girls style pretty girl who can't do anything without plastering make up on.

Dresses are beautiful and long hair is pretty, but I want a real person, not a Barbie wannabe.

MelvinGeek · Answer

I would lean towards a tomboy, but on the condition that she does not abandon her femininity. Because, otherwise, if she's too much like a "boy," it would just be a novelty that can get stale quickly.

Think of it the other way around. Imagine a feminine guy...
Then imagine him having no male qualities.
Now imagine dating him. :)

Losalt · Answer

It depends...
I'm definitely not a fan of makeup and overly folly girls.
I prefer get to be more natural.
But I love her wearing a skirt or dress at times.
Apart from anything else it's... Lets say practical...
But it depends on the situation.

Marushka · Answer

I've been very tomboyish for the majority of my life but by now I enjoy both. I enjoy cute girly girl stuff but I also enjoy tomboyish looks. in my opinion both can be fun and pretty and in the end I don't like the idea of choosing one over the other.

When it comes to other girls I've always been most attracted to tomboyish types with some feminine qualities to them, talking about physical appearance.

Theabcking · Answer

You can't be a Tom boy forever it ends after your teen years. You because a Dyke or whatever they call it. And I want femininity. I am masculine man who is successful and take care of the bills and dates I want the opposite of me. I want date a woman not myself. Everyone is different and has something to offer to others. Me I am a capable masculine mam who can hold it down and I want opposite to be femmine.

I want a conversion with a person not the mirror.

convo_king89 · Answer

I want sexy Tom boy.

Gopnik · Answer

I'm kinda into Both, in the right ways tomboys can be hot to me aswell, as long as they don't appear like actual boys.

There's a certain mindset associated with tomboys that goes into mainstream thoughts, which i'm into but there's a fine line between tomboy and too boyish for me.

A girly girly is more likely to pick up my attention though.

Reaper1985 · Answer

so long as she regularly embraces her feminine natural. I'm fine with a girl having a tomboy side. being feminine doesn't just mean wearing frilly girl clothing and/or makeup though.

however I do enjoy when a girl I'm with wears more modest yet also figure flattering outfits that fit her style. there are even dresses and skirts that come in less girly styles and colors options these days. for when she wants to showcase her feminine side without going over board.

Adam_INTJ · Answer

I would need a woman who endorses my leadership. Tomboys don't tend to do that.

Also, girly girl is just nicer to me. I'm not a hunter, gearhead, gamer, or typical frat guy. I don't want a partner who lives into more male stereotypes than me. Said stereotypes are obnoxious to me.

Anonymous · Answer

I like a mix of both, but definitely lean more toward tomboy. I find women who are afraid of every bug and spec of dirt to be rather annoying, but I find maternal instincts sexy. My girlfriend cut and put up the siding for our house almost entirely by herself, but we also saved and raised a wild rabbit together. Love her to the moon and back

monkeynutts · Answer

I'm generally easy, I have dated both and loved them equally the same, relationships should be about compromise, I like a girl who would watch game of thrones with me, if I have to watch a crappy drag queen reality tv show sometimes, maybe I might if I really like the person.

BazookaTrouper · Answer

I generally like women who have a tomboyish personality, but at the same time I'm physically attracted to feminine body language and aesthetics. Not sure how hard it is to really combine dressing sexy (to a straight man) and having an interesting personality.

kellytheman · Answer

I like a girly girl who gets a medi pedi who wears skirts and dresses, who goes out with her girlfriends and do girl things, and at the end of the night wears a sexy nightie. It's nice if she hangs with me and some of us bros watching a football game but I rather have me and her cuddle on the couch watching the game alone.

HighValue · Answer

Tomboy personality and wears athletic clothes most of the time, but is very affectionate with me and has manners (no farting, or things like that).

SkyCastle90 · Answer

Oddly enough I believe most men need a mixture of the two. Just feminine enough to be a considered not a man, but boyish enough in thinking to understand his point of view/activities and not afraid to get her hair messy.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

Personally, I would choose neither. I'd want to be a mix of both, someone who is strong enough and able to do/fix stuff but I also like embracing my femininity, dressing/looking elegant and having a more gracious personality.

Snsl153 · Answer

Maybe this is a naive question, but "prefer" for what?

ElenaMorgan5552 · Answer

While I voted tomboy on the poll just to choose one, I don't truly have a preference, and tend to prefer girls who are in-between rather than fitting perfectly in a box.

johnnygodeeep · Answer

In a perfect world I would like a relationship with a pair of bestfriends, one very conventionally feminine, similar in manner to a lipstick lesbian, and the other tomboy-esque both in manner of dress and hairstyle yet that wouldn't rather be other...

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Depends on the woman. I’ve liked both in the past. If girly is equatable to high maintenance, i prefer more tomboyish. My experiences with high maintenance women have been less good.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

In general I honestly prefer girly girls, I’m more a traditionalist from that point of view… but I recognise comfort and being a bit “easy” and “careless” can be healthy some times.

Blackcosmo · Answer

I'm a total tomboy with a secret feminine style.

Cuddlekisser · Answer

I don't like the gender ideas so I prefer a girl on my level. That said, I clearly prefer the dominant tomboy. For me, the best gender is in the middle of both.

Smoothing · Answer

Unless you are a lesbianism, you will gradually change when you are ready to a bit of a girly girl. Especially when you begin to date the right guys of your liking.

Tanhoaon · Answer

I don’t know why there is a lot of confusion about girly girl and tomboy having different routine about suffer and experience whereas mostly their types are addressed by their appearance and outside characteristics.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I prefer a tomboy, they're not afraid of get themselves dirty. Enjoy camping, fishing. You clean up really well, you also like to dress up into those frilly things. A lot of outdoor guys love you for being you.

Anonymous · Answer

The tomboy I knew changed and started maintaining herself and went for a richer older guy. Low-effort girls actually maintain themselves a lot when they want to attract guys above their leagues. So dating a tomboy means they are waiting for more and just spending time with you. Plus tomboys are less empathetic than girly girls.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have always preferred the company of tomboys.

susie22 · Answer

I'd say I'm about 50/50. I'm athletic, I love sports and cars, but I also love dressing up in something sexy, so I'm a bit of both.

ochitougly · Answer

I look like a girly girl but with Tom boy personality… haha in the end it depends of the type of guy that you like

kobeni · Answer

most weird guys want a girl who looks girly and acts like a guy

EmmaMary · Answer

I'm most definitely a mixture of both, but probably leaning more towards being girly girl.

GlassTop · Answer

Both honestly. The rest depends on the girl. A tomboy transformation goes into a girly girl makes me want to orgasm.

desperatelyhungry · Answer

I’m a girly girl. I used to be more of a tomboy but totally flipped. Sad so many guys said tomboy 🥲

HSalenko · Answer

I prefer a girlish woman on who's mature but isn't afraid of her inner child.

humanearth · Answer

I like tomboys, the ones that can fight and hit like a man

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Hobbies and interests: Tomboy Hairstyle, face, and body: Girly girl Clothing: Either

reyesdavina · Answer

I was more a tomboy growing up but now I'm for sure a girly girl

Bubbles16 · Answer

I think I'm a mixture of both because I like wearing pink and nail polish but I also like to climb trees and sometimes play basketball

MrTaboo · Answer

I want a feminie girl. If it's girly girl or a girly hot tomboy.

redbeardsley91 · Answer

A tomboy. I like a girl who's not afraid to get dirty, not afraid they'll break a nail or something or pick up an earthworm and NOT be like "eww, gross!"

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I like feminine women. And to all the liberal cucks who voted for Tomboys, you’re only attracted to them because of what you lack in masculinity

fonduegirl · Answer

Tomboy of course. I'm one too! #tomboydatingtomboys

Prettysammie · Answer

I’m a girly girl on the outside but a tomboy on the inside.

AndrésC64 · Answer

I've always preferred tomboys over a girly girls. I don't want high maintenance.

Th3ft · Answer

I’m defiantly more in to the tomboy style. I mean I love it when a girl wears dresses and loves wearing them. But I can totally dig the shorts and a tee shirt look too.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Doesn't matter at end of the day the guy is more intrested in removing those things on you lol 😂

Freyke · Answer

My girlfriend leans more towards tomboy. And it's great.

AsaKyo · Answer

I'm a mix of girly girl and tomboy, so I guess both have their perks

TallAnon · Answer

I like a girl that can adjust. Chill, pizza and games in the evening. Girly girl when we go out. That said, I'm not too picky, lol.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

A woman who acts like a normal feminine woman.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Tomboys seem to be more modest and more being themselves.

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