Oddly enough I believe most men need a mixture of the two. Just feminine enough to be a considered not a man, but boyish enough in thinking to understand his point of view/activities and not afraid to get her hair messy.
Personally, I would choose neither. I'd want to be a mix of both, someone who is strong enough and able to do/fix stuff but I also like embracing my femininity, dressing/looking elegant and having a more gracious personality.
While I voted tomboy on the poll just to choose one, I don't truly have a preference, and tend to prefer girls who are in-between rather than fitting perfectly in a box.
In a perfect world I would like a relationship with a pair of bestfriends, one very conventionally feminine, similar in manner to a lipstick lesbian, and the other tomboy-esque both in manner of dress and hairstyle yet that wouldn't rather be other...
In general I honestly prefer girly girls, I’m more a traditionalist from that point of view… but I recognise comfort and being a bit “easy” and “careless” can be healthy some times.
I don't like the gender ideas so I prefer a girl on my level. That said, I clearly prefer the dominant tomboy. For me, the best gender is in the middle of both.
Unless you are a lesbianism, you will gradually change when you are ready to a bit of a girly girl. Especially when you begin to date the right guys of your liking.
Depends on the woman. I’ve liked both in the past. If girly is equatable to high maintenance, i prefer more tomboyish. My experiences with high maintenance women have been less good.
I don’t know why there is a lot of confusion about girly girl and tomboy having different routine about suffer and experience whereas mostly their types are addressed by their appearance and outside characteristics.
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The tomboy I knew changed and started maintaining herself and went for a richer older guy. Low-effort girls actually maintain themselves a lot when they want to attract guys above their leagues. So dating a tomboy means they are waiting for more and just spending time with you. Plus tomboys are less empathetic than girly girls.
I prefer a tomboy, they're not afraid of get themselves dirty. Enjoy camping, fishing. You clean up really well, you also like to dress up into those frilly things. A lot of outdoor guys love you for being you.
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Tomboy personality and wears athletic clothes most of the time, but is very affectionate with me and has manners (no farting, or things like that).
If they are the more silky shiny type of athletic clothes she could wear those every day if she wants and I would be happy with her.
So you don’t wanna girl who farts? You’re aware that’s a normal human function? Are they allowed to shit?
@desperatelyhungry Not in front of me on purpose like some people do. It is gross and rude when people do that in front of others on purpose.
Oddly enough I believe most men need a mixture of the two. Just feminine enough to be a considered not a man, but boyish enough in thinking to understand his point of view/activities and not afraid to get her hair messy.
Personally, I would choose neither. I'd want to be a mix of both, someone who is strong enough and able to do/fix stuff but I also like embracing my femininity, dressing/looking elegant and having a more gracious personality.
Maybe this is a naive question, but "prefer" for what?
Relationship wise
While I voted tomboy on the poll just to choose one, I don't truly have a preference, and tend to prefer girls who are in-between rather than fitting perfectly in a box.
In other words, "girly girls"
@BUTIMRIGHTTHO Uh no. From my experience most girls tend to be a mix of both.
I don't think it works that way. Real tomboys know the difference.
If she doesn't fit perfectly in a box, how are you gonna ship her across the country if it doesn't work out?
In a perfect world I would like a relationship with a pair of bestfriends, one very conventionally feminine, similar in manner to a lipstick lesbian, and the other tomboy-esque both in manner of dress and hairstyle yet that wouldn't rather be other...
In general I honestly prefer girly girls, I’m more a traditionalist from that point of view… but I recognise comfort and being a bit “easy” and “careless” can be healthy some times.
I'm a total tomboy with a secret feminine style.
I don't like the gender ideas so I prefer a girl on my level. That said, I clearly prefer the dominant tomboy. For me, the best gender is in the middle of both.
Unless you are a lesbianism, you will gradually change when you are ready to a bit of a girly girl. Especially when you begin to date the right guys of your liking.
For most straight women, being a tomboy is just a phase.
Depends on the woman. I’ve liked both in the past. If girly is equatable to high maintenance, i prefer more tomboyish. My experiences with high maintenance women have been less good.
I don’t know why there is a lot of confusion about girly girl and tomboy having different routine about suffer and experience whereas mostly their types are addressed by their appearance and outside characteristics.
The tomboy I knew changed and started maintaining herself and went for a richer older guy. Low-effort girls actually maintain themselves a lot when they want to attract guys above their leagues. So dating a tomboy means they are waiting for more and just spending time with you. Plus tomboys are less empathetic than girly girls.
I'd say I'm about 50/50. I'm athletic, I love sports and cars, but I also love dressing up in something sexy, so I'm a bit of both.
I look like a girly girl but with Tom boy personality… haha in the end it depends of the type of guy that you like
I prefer a tomboy, they're not afraid of get themselves dirty. Enjoy camping, fishing. You clean up really well, you also like to dress up into those frilly things. A lot of outdoor guys love you for being you.
Omg this is hilarious
most weird guys want a girl who looks girly and acts like a guy
I'm most definitely a mixture of both, but probably leaning more towards being girly girl.
Both honestly. The rest depends on the girl. A tomboy transformation goes into a girly girl makes me want to orgasm.