Questions: Girl's Behavior

Girls, do you like to make the first move, if you like a guy who is very shy?

Guys, do you like it when girls take initiative?

It sure seems like that. Girls find, that they are wanted so much by boys and men, not knowing, that their inherited beauty and youth have enabled it for them in the first place. It is not until they reach their middle ages, that they are getting swapped out for girls younger than themselves. If that's not true or I'm a misogynistic pig, then why is it considered improper to ask a woman's age, huh?

Some girls resort to being their worst selves after first experiencing their time in being among the highest desirable female demographics for dating and relationships, resorting to abrasive actions e. g. insulting the average Joe's as losers and chasing after the top 10% of men and dismissing any amount of criticism in their direction as "misogyny, jealousy, bitter losers, that nobody wants". Say what you want about that and call me a misogynistic pig but I have personally observed this happening multiple times! Ew, yuck!

Enough of that now. I know of a few examples, who were pretty and young and they didn't land poor choices, knowing their perks at that time: One girl married a guy, that seemed like a dependable man (they escaped from the country I was stuck at), another has married a guy, that's easy to get along with but then they have peacefully separated for unknown to me reasons (they too escaped from the country I was stuck at). Me escaped too but I'm single still.