My former fling is starting to piss me off. Why can’t she interact with me?

[Anonymous]

I had a fling with someone with my social group. She wanted to escalate things to a relationship. While I find her physically attractive and think that she is a good girl, I just don’t think a relationship would work between us being that she isn’t very confident.

I let her know this and she ended things. She unfollowed me on everything and in group settings she avoids/ignores me or is curt with me. I feel like we should at least be friends being that we have mutual friends. I’m tired of things being awkward between us.

[Jessica405]

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"! You had a fling, then refused her need to go further. She just wants to forget you and the fling. Don't persue her. Let her go.

[Asker]

Clearly. It wasn’t anything personal and wanted to be on good terms. Now she won’t talk to me.

[Jessica405]

I am not surprised. Just let go. You can't give her what she wants.

[Asker]

But we cross paths often and it’s super awkward?

[Jessica405]

That is something you will have to put up with.

[In_Trance]

You're the one in the wrong. Move tf on

[Asker]

How am I in the wrong? She’s being immature.

[Anonymous]

lol u aren’t happy that she’s over u?

[Asker]

But she’s treating me differently and isn’t talking to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly because u treated her bad , and now she understands u never respected her. Now u are probably crawling back because I bet u are lonely

[Asker]

I didn’t treat her badly, I just didn’t think that we were compatible for a relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

I am sure u are going back because u have probably lost all your friends , lonely , and wanna use the soft spot she had for u once

[Sunlight4]

Your honesty to her hurt her feelings.