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I met a very attractive foreign girl on holiday that was very exhibitionist type always flashing and being flirty and wearing super revealing clothes with provocative sexual slogans etc. She even done nude modelling in past.
We got on well but now I'm home I wanted to send a message to see if she'd send sexy pics or swap some stuff. I normally wouldn't do it but she gave those open sexy type vibes (plus she lives different country) that I feel kinda ok about it. But on other hand maybe she'll be angry and block me if I go about It wrong?
Here's my planned message anything you would change or say or advice thanks. "Hi xxxx hope you had fun holiday... I have something a bit risquee to ask. I woulndt normally ask such things but as you were such a fun sxy open girl and super hot. I wondered if at all you'd be interested in send/swap some sexy pics. (Embarrsed emoji)
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Even if she is kind of risqué or dresses a certain way doesn't mean she is just going to send nude pics to you. Most girls won't at all.
Ok but the message I suggested to ask was OK? And what's worst reaction I could get?
Well, I mean if you are going to ask I guess that is probably an okay way to do it. The worst reaction you can get is a block in my opinion.
Ok thanks I guess it's not to offensive
Ai bot gave this suggestion do you think it's better?
"Hey [Her Name]! Hope you’re settling back in after the holiday! I just wanted to say I really enjoyed our time together—your fun and open vibe really stood out to me. I have a bit of a cheeky question: would you be interested in swapping some flirty pics? I know it’s a bit forward, but I thought it might be fun given your bold personality! No pressure at all if you’re not into it—I totally understand! 😊"
Tips to Consider:
Stay Respectful: Acknowledge that this is a sensitive topic. Ensure she feels comfortable, and let her know she can decline without any hard feelings.
Use Light Language: Keeping the tone playful and casual helps reduce any potential pressure.
Read the Room: If she responds enthusiastically, you can gauge her interest for yourself. If she seems hesitant or unresponsive, respect her wishes.
Timing: Make sure enough time has passed since you last spoke to ensure she remembers you and the fun connection.
Being direct yet respectful can help foster a positive exchange. Good luck!
Yeah because "flirty pics" doesn't mean hey I want to see your tits. It is better because she should pick up the clue and give you what she is comfortable with.
So I should change sexy pics to flirty ones. But I want sexy ones but maybe I could ask later I guess.. see how this goes first
Or maybe better being direct lol than wasting time
That is a safer bet, I would say.
first message, asking for sexy pics? it's a turn off
it's not because she wear revealing clothes mean she'll send you nudes
Well the thing is there isn't really any reason to message her hence only ask for pics. Because I already said nice meeting u was fun. Enjoy your travels and so on. If i keep messaging her I'd prob be an annoying is it simp they say? It's just kind of weird I only knew her a week so to message her all the time might put her off. She would walk about and flash her boobs and wear shirts saying things like I look better bent over. She would even wear tiny pants and bend over right in front of me etc. So there was all this sexy type stuff going on whoch makes me think could be valid asking for pics etc. Whereas ironically making lots of chit chat would seem more to put me in a freind zone. Reality is we never gonna meet again She lives in Spain and me uk.
Mentioning good time vacay first then directly sexy pics would make her think the care part is just to make it less too direct but in the end you really only cared about the sexy pics
You've seen her bend over with very short clothes, no need pics anymore anyway, it's not valid reason to directly ask for pics, you wouldn't fall in friends zone if you believe she did these things intentionally
I mean it's both. I'd like to be her friend but also think she's so hot would like sexy pics.
In my experience, you have to get to know them a bit first. Just don’t expect something from the first message
So would you change my first message
Yes I’d definitely get to know her first. You’d have more chance. I know
Yeh but that's not gonna happen was just a holiday thing. Won't see her again and not really situation to message her for chatting. by the way I ask ai I gave this instead is it better..."Hey [Her Name]! Hope you’re settling back in after the holiday! I just wanted to say I really enjoyed our time together—your fun and open vibe really stood out to me. I have a bit of a cheeky question: would you be interested in swapping some flirty pics? I know it’s a bit forward, but I thought it might be fun given your bold personality! No pressure at all if you’re not into it—I totally understand! 😊"
Tips to Consider:
Stay Respectful: Acknowledge that this is a sensitive topic. Ensure she feels comfortable, and let her know she can decline without any hard feelings.
Use Light Language: Keeping the tone playful and casual helps reduce any potential pressure.
Read the Room: If she responds enthusiastically, you can gauge her interest for yourself. If she seems hesitant or unresponsive, respect her wishes.
Timing: Make sure enough time has passed since you last spoke to ensure she remembers you and the fun connection.
Being direct yet respectful can help foster a positive exchange. Good luck!
This is AI haha
Yeh it's worse? Lol
Yes haha