Polls: Girl's Behavior

Please explain your preference if you don’t mind.

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Pleas if you can read the whole thing it would mean a lot to me. Also just for some background info I do have some jealousy issues but I'm trying to make it better and change, though I do get out of hand from time to time.

Last night I had a horrible dream that my girlfriend died, it started off like a normal dream with some weird stuff that I don't remember but suddenly I was in like a forest or park type of area with friend or/and family then suddenly my girlfriend ran in front of a car and she died... But for some reason in my dream no one is sure if she died and she is there with me right by my side but the event did happen and we all have to wait for heaven or something to confirm that she actually died. Then I remember spending time with her and other stuff but also getting jealous at one point. Then I'm in my room waiting when suddenly I feel the rush to run out the building and find my girlfriend and when I do I find my friend saying "did you hear the bad news" and I already know what it is and she appears right there crying saying that she really is dead. After that she takes me to an apartment saying that I have to take care of it. And finally I suddenly find my self chasing after my girlfriend on the road then embracing her and crying my eyes out saying that I can't live without her and that I never want her to leave me. That's when I woke up and I was crying, I couldn't go back sleep it just shook me up so much I did call her and she said she's always gonna be there but what do you think this dream meant?

Well for those who don't know what that means, its a sexual/dating term for saying your getting someone who was already "deflowered".

In a lot of music today, people say things like this " I hook up with this girl then I pass her on to my best friend", Kinda trying to make it a positive thing.

Then again , One of my friends was excited about this mutual friend who he finally hooked up with, then he asked about if I had did anything with her, I told him and then he was like "oh well". He took it better then I originally planned, but I was wondering, does the term mean anything anymore?

Whats your opinion?

is it? I always notice in society that women who have their different kids with different men are never trusted. I see it as a red flag myself; not because I think they are sluts but maybe because they are complicating people that can't keep a good relationship going and don't now how to make the right choices in them. but this is my opinion, what's yours? if you see this as a red flag

I've been texting this girl that I met and she is very busy, which I get, so she doesn't always reply in the most timely manner. Or sometimes doesn't reply at all. I'm beginning to suspect that she has a boyfriend. What's the best way to ask her if she does or not? I'd like to know because I plan on asking her out and I don't want to look like a fool if she has a boyfriend.